Are you taboo, Do you control your own destiny?  

rm_KirkVW44m 56M
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5/21/2006 3:57 am

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5/24/2006 2:47 am

Are you taboo, Do you control your own destiny?


You might wonder why i ask this but first let me define it.. Taboo "Excluded or forbidden from use, approach, or mention: a taboo subject.". Now that we defined the word Taboo, lets ask the question about who writes the laws for what is taboo or what isn't?... Lets say i see a sexy married woman and she see's me and we end up fucking. We're both married in this scenario.. The thought and act itself is taboo right? It goes against modern society views as right? How come when me and the woman fucked it wasn't taboo to us? Not until the world looked in was what we shared taboo. Why do people let the world rule their souls instead of each and everybody ruling there own destiny?

For one people in general are selfish and need to spend alot more time being selfless? Do you always expect something in return for your actions of giving towards another person? Would you let me fuck you until you had an explosive orgasm without getting mine at all knowing that in that moment it was I that simply wanted to give you pleasure without thought of self.. Thats a good definition of selfless isn't it?

Now the big question is could you share your partner with another and be confident that it changed nothing between you and your legal mate? Could you do this uncontrolled or would the setting have to be controlled where you both were afforded the same at the same moment. My ears ring with people saying If he or she can get some on the side i want it at the same time too? Again selfishness at its finest. If your spouse came up to you and said " Honey i want to spend the night with a lover of mine so i wont be home till tomorrow , could you openly allow it? If you were selfless you could but not if you are selfish.

Something to think about when you think the love you share is true. True love is selfless is it not? How many of you could share your spouse just because you knew its what they wanted ? Not many i venture to say. So not many are in control of there own destiny when you come to think of it are they?

This will about sum up my weekend warrior blogging. I'm gonna try to ad some thoughts during the week when time permits i just haven't had the time as of late

rm_mm0206 70F
7767 posts
5/22/2006 11:44 am

You have to be an Aquarian...

even I feel some possession of the one I am with and intend to be for more than once.my rule only...

but the idea is so beautiful to be liberated and free spiritually...
to allow the sharing of a mate with another.
I guess if it is done with some humility and not use as leverage over your partner.... I could accept it.
I find your ideas not new to me but refreshing to see that those thoughts have been stirring in another's mind.

Have a wonderful day Sir...
...m.


rm_KirkVW44m 56M
688 posts
5/22/2006 3:24 pm

    Quoting rm_mm0206:
    You have to be an Aquarian...

    even I feel some possession of the one I am with and intend to be for more than once.my rule only...

    but the idea is so beautiful to be liberated and free spiritually...
    to allow the sharing of a mate with another.
    I guess if it is done with some humility and not use as leverage over your partner.... I could accept it.
    I find your ideas not new to me but refreshing to see that those thoughts have been stirring in another's mind.

    Have a wonderful day Sir...
    ...m.
Why do i right in Aquarian language or something .. Yes i am birth sign Aquarius though i dont hold much thought into zodiac signs Thanks for the reply dear.


SacredStarDance

5/22/2006 10:06 pm

Great Post..

This is hard to answer but..I love hubby enough to want him to have the experience if there was an opportunity to fulfill a fantasies with another woman...
The question is.. am I secure enough to allow that ???to open that door ?? and where would it end...and would we as a married couple have anything sacred left..
I think I rather not know...

Yes I'm laughing at my self... hit post.. hit post..post it now !!!

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