Are you honest, true and selfless???  

rm_KirkVW44m 56M
514 posts
7/16/2006 3:20 am

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7/19/2006 2:12 am

Are you honest, true and selfless???


Alot of people will know what i'm talking about and many will search for years to find the answer in truth about what i'm going to say Can you close your eyes to the outside and know within a few minutes of meeting or having a conversation with them be it written, via chatting or talking on the phone or face to face whether or not you or they are lovers to each other.

Never denying being married here, i can honestly say a few readers of my blogs would be my lovers and i would be theirs and we've never met in real life ,but i can confidently say that we would share a bed together and it would be far more then a NSA sexual relationship. We all know who they are don't we?.. We would not only be lovers but are soul mates already. The chemistry is there and its purely natural when you allow your spirit to run free. The funny thing is society and the rules dictated by men and women say that your a slut/tramp or whatever for following your heart which never judges or lies to you once you are committed to a single relationship/marriage.

So before you go on and say that guy don't know what he is talking about.. He is promiscous, slutty or what not.. I can tell you that is simply not the case for i would never hop in the bed of somebody i didn't love. Years ago i might of but not now, not after i found the answers within myself. So after all i just said you must also realize that we have many soul mates and lovers that are only for us. How many are open to that truth? You could love me with all that you are and one day cross paths with another that you fell just as much in love with and you wanted to give them all that you give me..

Would your heart be big enough? I can tell you this if you cross the path of another and your heart burns out of control for them and you can't explain why other then its a natural non physical attraction then that is a potential lover/soul mate. What happens after that point is up to the two people whose bell just got rung by the truest form of love. It is my belief that there are two kinds of people in this world.. Those looking for the answer love clearly gives or those who have found the truth in love and embrace it for all its worth.

Now to my question.. Could you love me and allow me another or several lovers if you knew that love was as pure and selfless as ours was? I don't think many can answer because few are as open as i am to the truth in that we all have more then one soul mate lover in this life. After all if you truelly love somebody you will do all in your power to please them to include sharing the gift you hold with others. All that said before 6:00 am ~kisses

*The soul can not be seen by your eyes, but it can be seen by your heart*

Whispersoftly5 53F
15176 posts
7/17/2006 1:01 am

Okay now. This is a deep post! LOL!

I do believe a person can have feelings that are powerful (love) for more than one person at a time. I believe that over the course of a relationship or marriage our feelings can fluctuate drastically (doesn't mean there's not love - just differing levels).

The question - can we be in a relationship/marriage and act on those feelings for another? The answer - I acknowledge there can be feelings for others (love) - but acting on them - I don't know.

Acting on feelings and swinging with others are two very different things. I think I have it in me to swing. I've done it once already in my present relationship and I really like the other man who joined us - but I was not emotional over him or in love with him.

I don't know how I would feel or act if I had emotions or felt in love with another.

I tend to get confused when I have feelings for more than one man. Social conditioning is what causes that. Regardless of the reason - it throws me and I feel my loyalties are off and that my mind is acting disrespectfully.

I think that a relationship would have to be very open and strong and effective communication exist in order for one of the two in the partnership to act on feelings for somebody outside the partnership and our partner not feel threatened. Not likely to happen in most relationships I don't think.

So, I don't know that I could maintain a relationship with more than one man at a time. But I do know I can have feelings for more than one man at a time.

How's that for a bunch of babble?!

Whisper...

P.S. It's 1 in the morning here. Maybe I should try to answer this again when I'm actually awake.


rm_KirkVW44m 56M
688 posts
7/17/2006 2:45 am

    Quoting Whispersoftly5:
    Okay now. This is a deep post! LOL!

    I do believe a person can have feelings that are powerful (love) for more than one person at a time. I believe that over the course of a relationship or marriage our feelings can fluctuate drastically (doesn't mean there's not love - just differing levels).

    The question - can we be in a relationship/marriage and act on those feelings for another? The answer - I acknowledge there can be feelings for others (love) - but acting on them - I don't know.

    Acting on feelings and swinging with others are two very different things. I think I have it in me to swing. I've done it once already in my present relationship and I really like the other man who joined us - but I was not emotional over him or in love with him.

    I don't know how I would feel or act if I had emotions or felt in love with another.

    I tend to get confused when I have feelings for more than one man. Social conditioning is what causes that. Regardless of the reason - it throws me and I feel my loyalties are off and that my mind is acting disrespectfully.

    I think that a relationship would have to be very open and strong and effective communication exist in order for one of the two in the partnership to act on feelings for somebody outside the partnership and our partner not feel threatened. Not likely to happen in most relationships I don't think.

    So, I don't know that I could maintain a relationship with more than one man at a time. But I do know I can have feelings for more than one man at a time.

    How's that for a bunch of babble?!

    Whisper...

    P.S. It's 1 in the morning here. Maybe I should try to answer this again when I'm actually awake.
You can laugh but when i see your name i always wonder if your gonna leave me standing with a perfectly good unused hard on babe lol .. Your answer is fair honey.. You did say it perfectly in this.

"I think that a relationship would have to be very open and strong and effective communication exist in order for one of the two in the partnership to act on feelings for somebody outside the partnership and our partner not feel threatened. Not likely to happen in most relationships I don't think."

It would also take two selfless people in fact all involved in an open relationship like this would have to be selfless. How many people do you know babe that don't want something in return for what you give them. Thats why i lay reference even into my fantasy with you in being allowed to please you expecting nothing in return.

I'm the type that could actually give you orgasm after orgasm in whatever way and be content even if i didn't cum once. The pleasure for me was being allowed to pleasure you alone.

Hope you have a wonderful week sexy thing~


rm_KirkVW44m 56M
688 posts
7/19/2006 2:12 am

    Quoting rm_mzhunyhole:
    I could not love two at once..I love with all my heart when I love..I just wouldn't let myself get in a situation where I would be with another man..if I had a man.
So you are saying if you were in love with somebody and fell in love with another at the same time which is totally possible you would ignore it or turn your back to it?


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