How about the One Minute Woman?  

rm_Kingcat4U2 66M
1606 posts
8/6/2006 6:40 pm

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How about the One Minute Woman?


Recently I've read a number of blogs where the theme was the one minute man. Guys who had a hard time getting it up, or were done in 60 seconds or less. It's a fact, there are men out there who suffer from erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation. And if you're a female and had one of these lovers, I'm sure you felt shortchanged and cheated.

But there is the female equivilent. I know, I've had two of them in my time. One who would cum within the first five minutes, and then "endure" until I had my turn. She didn't like oral, either giving or receiving. Missionary was her favorite position because it was the least taxing for her. Anything over 10 minutes and she would start asking if I was "close". Very thrilling indeed. Needless to say, we did not last very long as lovers.

The other one could only cum through oral. She didn't like giving it, because "I was too large and she had such a tiny mouth". She too liked the missionary position, so she could lay there like a slab of meat. Really, it's not a lot of fun to have partner who thinks sex is all about quickly getting her turn, and then marking time until it's over.

Both of these women were "one shot wonders".
They did it, got what enjoyment they could out of it, and then sexually "disappeared". It's enough to give a guy a complex of the first magnitude, unless he knows he is NOT the partner having the problem. Fortunately, I've had partners with sexual appetites that matched my own, were multi-orgasmic, and had the stamina to achieve that
"all fucked out" feeling of total exhaustion.

So does being with a partner who doesn't match your sexual appetite and expectations suck? You betcha! But is it just a male problem? Hell no!
But I do know this. No one, of either gender, is ever going to admit to "I really suck in the sack!"

canuhandle1968 50F

8/7/2006 3:41 pm

How old were these women?? I ask because I think sex and making love just gets better as you get older... The ability to actually express what is good and what isn't quite working for ya, for both parties, is so liberating...and appreciated! Missionary is good, but damn if it's not great to get tapped from behind... side-ways in a spoon?? you betcha! And for me, the look on his face when I'm straddling him.... Mmmmm


rm_Kingcat4U2 66M
2799 posts
8/7/2006 5:25 pm

The first one was in her early twenties. The second, late forties. The one aspect that I believe they shared in common was basically a closed mind. They both seemed to have the attitude that they already knew what they liked, what worked for them, and there was no need to try anything different. They were both actually content, and satisfied with their results. Both seemed to view me as being the aberrant one, wanting something that was "impossible" to obtain. Whoever said that the largest sexual organ is the brain, knew what they talking about.


twirly_girl 48F

8/13/2006 6:20 pm

I guess I like variety too much to ever not want to try something different. And being multi-orgasmic is a wonderful thing. I think the highest number of orgasms I've had was maybe 9 or 10 in just a couple of hours. Some small, some very intense but all wonderful.
It helps to have a partner who is as eager to please as you are. I think that's where I've lucked out in finding a sex partner. But relationships are a different story. I guess I can be the best fuck a guy has ever had but I don't meet expectations as a potential girlfriend.

Ut-oh! I feel a pity party coming on.


-Nikki


rm_Kingcat4U2 66M
2799 posts
8/13/2006 7:30 pm

    Quoting twirly_girl:
    I guess I like variety too much to ever not want to try something different. And being multi-orgasmic is a wonderful thing. I think the highest number of orgasms I've had was maybe 9 or 10 in just a couple of hours. Some small, some very intense but all wonderful.
    It helps to have a partner who is as eager to please as you are. I think that's where I've lucked out in finding a sex partner. But relationships are a different story. I guess I can be the best fuck a guy has ever had but I don't meet expectations as a potential girlfriend.

    Ut-oh! I feel a pity party coming on.

Mmmm. Well, I can say this, at least as far as I'm concerned, although I think it's a givin, sexual compatibility is very important. Almost a requirement.

Relationships, that's always a tough one. It's always hard to find someone you're really in tune with and vice versa. I'm not going to feel sorry for you and I'll tell you why. I don't know you, but from what I can discern from your blog, I do know the following:

You're very intelligent (based on English skills, writing ability)
You're imaginative &
creative (Lena Morgan story)
You're insightful & (based on your daily observations and
communicative comments)
High sex drive (you just told me)
You have sexy feet (and I'm sure the rest matches too)

All of that can be pretty intimidating for a guy. If I had to guess,
I'm guessing more than a few bailed on you because they were afraid
you'd find out they were little more than a penis attached to a body.

That just means you're going to have work a little harder, be a
little more selective, in finding someone who can handle the heat
in your kitchen. I think you can do it, without a problem. It will be just that much more sweeter when it does. Best of all, you'll have a guy who knows he's a pretty lucky little bastard.


twirly_girl 48F

8/13/2006 9:02 pm


Most have ended up being just a penis attached to a body.

Thank you for all of your kind words.

I'm going to have a pity party though.
It's an excuse to have cake.


-Nikki


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