I Need Your Help!  

rm_Kandygurl67 50F
26 posts
4/1/2006 10:38 am

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I Need Your Help!

Ok, I've never been much for getting fucked in the ass. I have tried it close to a dozen times in my sexual lifetime and have only had one positive experience. That came after my gay male hairdresser gave me a few tips. I'm going to see my long distance boyfriend soon, and we have been discussing it. It has been quite a while since that positive experience, but at least I know it is possible to have one. I want us to have a positive experience, but he is a lot thicker than I've ever had.

I need some advice. For all the women who do this regularly, what kind of advice can you offer me? How does it effect your bodily function in that area? Does poo come out? How do you handle that situation without dying from embarrassment?

I'm not sure I want to become the Up the Butt girl, but on the occasion when I feel like it, having it as an option I can feel confident about would be nice.

rm_PurryKitty2 49M/51F
9753 posts
4/1/2006 11:20 am

I've tried and dont like it. OUCH!

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rm_MrRite23 46M
156 posts
4/1/2006 12:14 pm

You coverd the first part. Be with someone you trust. Next you just gotta go slow. Eat consionce the day before lite food. You might not want to do it on your fav sheets. But it can be a guilty pleasure the forbiden fruit if you will. Good Luck.

avoiceinthenight 77M

4/1/2006 12:17 pm

I've done to only one woman. Her vagina was tighter.

tazzerman2000 60M
18958 posts
4/1/2006 12:42 pm

Relax! Include some finger and or toy play to help loosen you up. A little wine maybe? Take it very slow and warm up first. Of course, LOTS of lube... Make sure that your partner is VERY in tune with you and knows that stop means just that.... STOP! Good luck -tm

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MONA_14 31F

4/1/2006 12:51 pm

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rm_Kandygurl67 50F
22 posts
4/2/2006 12:56 pm

avoiceinthenight -- ok, i didn't expect that answer. my pussy is pretty damn tight, but my ass is like a vault! i can't imagine my pussy being tighter than my ass, but hey, who knows? thanks for your response!

rm_SunnyD54 61F
94 posts
4/2/2006 2:49 pm

I love anal from time to time. Use lots of lube. Have him do some ass play with his fingers to loosen you up a little. And then when ready, try it doggie style at first. Have him put the head in slowly and then completely stop until your anal muscles relax. Take some deep slow breaths. And then you push back with him holding still until he's all the way in. And then again relax before he starts stroking. And wham! You will feel some great pleasure as the asshole has more nerve endings than your vagina. And I love big tits.....so if you need a female buddy while you are in between your trips to NY....contact me!

rm_Kandygurl67 50F
22 posts
4/2/2006 3:53 pm

Thanks for the info and invite, SunnyD54, I'll keep that in mind!

SirMounts 103M

4/25/2006 2:33 am

Visualize that you are enjoying it beforehand, then relax as it happens. Concern or worry only take away from things, no matter what they are.
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