rm_JohnMacLaine 51M
454 posts
1/28/2006 3:41 am

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5/11/2006 8:00 pm


Hello everyone,

Welcome to my blog. I am kind of new to this whole blog thing, but will make an attempt at figuring it all out.

I am a 39 year old male, Single, Professional, romantic, friendly, honest guy looking for some excitement out of life. The last three years have been the most lonely in my life. I cant seem to meet anyone, and I have becoe shy enough to the point where making the first move in asking someone out is nearly impossible. I was hurt very bad in my last relationship, but thats what I get for getting involved with a married woman who isnt strong enough herself to leave her hubby, despite the fact she loved me more.

I am hoping that by creating my own space here on AdultFriendFinder it will allow me to move forward, heal the old wounds, and hopefully get some input as to what I could do to move on to that next step.

For all of you veterans out there to this site, what is the secret to finding what you are looking for, I have been practically a ghost here since joinig a couple of years ago, not sure what to send women that interest me, not sure how to approach someone, and although I have been to a couple o functions, there never seemed to be enough excitement or interest on my part to move forward or try to get to know any of the members i have met.

Am I pathetic? A lost cause? Will I ever get out of this funk i am in? I am more confident in myself that I was a couple of years ago, and that is due in part because of my profession. It has given me benefits that I could not get in any other profession, and I have become a better, more confident professional because of it. I am hoping to bring that confdence into my personal life as well, but it seems that the two are very different.

The expectations I had when I joined this site was to meet new friends, and possibly find someone willing to explore life with and enjoy our fantasies together. once I get to know someone the more confident I seem to become with myself, and our relationship. I am not looking to get married and hve kids, been there done that, just would like to meet interesting people in my own age bracket that is looking for the same things I am looking for.

more later.....


"I can retain neither respect or affection for a government which has been moving from wrong to wrong in order to defend its own immorality" Mahatma Ghandi

oldman1776 80M
3164 posts
1/28/2006 5:28 am

Wecome to blog land young man.

Get out there and read a lot of blogs leave comments so that people will know your out there.

Post as often as you can write what you want but write something so that people have a reason to visit your blog.

There are a lot os talent here in blog land I think you will enjoy it.

Hope you enjoy yourself.

caressmewell 55F

1/28/2006 8:30 am

Welcome to Blogville...

Oldman1776 has given you great advice. You may want to check out bloggers of this friendly site for tips and information to make blogging more fun.

rm_JohnMacLaine 51M
585 posts
1/28/2006 6:27 pm

Thank you both for your input. I will get "out there" more often.


"I can retain neither respect or affection for a government which has been moving from wrong to wrong in order to defend its own immorality" Mahatma Ghandi

rm_mm0206 70F
7767 posts
5/7/2006 11:11 am

you are a wonderful writer, I shall attempt to read all of your postings.
Shy ...a place I am well acquainted with.
I would enjoy chatting with you if you would care to persue it.I am not pushy or demanding and will listen with an open ear and heart.
I dont have intentions to meet you, since the distance is great, but would enjoy a friendship, chatting and trading views on life and several of the subjects you mentioned.

For a few days, my profile has been turned off... my choice.
However I would consider turning it on so you can read it...nothing world shattering there, but just to confirm my statements here.
I understand the lonliness and angst you are feeling.

Have a wonderful day..

rm_JohnMacLaine replies on 5/11/2006 8:02 pm:
thank you for taking the tme to read my blog. Before corresponding I would like to read more of your blog as well. I thank you for the compliment on my writing, it is a big help for my self


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