I'm about to have my first meeting with a woman from FF  

rm_James20910 54M
182 posts
12/13/2005 6:22 pm

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I'm about to have my first meeting with a woman from FF

I'm almost gitty.

Based on research of the blogs, I should be reaching the phase where I'm supposed to feel complete frustration with Friend Finder. Just when I'm preparing to just chuck the whole thing for Craigslist, I suddenly start getting positive feedback from a a single lady. Ok...my friendslist did fill up quickly and that gave me a little rush.

I've never met anybody with the intent to have sex with them. I really haven't the faintest clue what to expect. Based on the email conversation, the lady appears pretty and nice. (forgive me here for those that are into aggressive and acrobatic F&C's...I'm kind'a whitebread in my tastes)

It could turn out that she finds me horribly deformed, dress like a felon just out of jail and smell like a baboon. Seeing me thus, she might regain all her senses are run screaming into the night. But we can hope she's blind chick without any semblance of standards.

OK...it now sounds like I'm freaking out--I make the dramatic statements for effect. I was also hoping to employ humor to settle my nerves--yep...I'm kind'a freaked out.

OK...I'll approach it like any other first date. I'll try to be cool, calm and collect. I'll do and say all the things I'm supposed to do and try to enjoy myself while putting the 'dessert' out of my mind. (but I'm still going to make sure my apartment is spotless and there are fresh sheets on the bed...I might be a complete goober but I'm not an idiot).

So wish me luck...gimme pointers...be gentle.

rockwriter58 58M
1389 posts
12/14/2005 10:34 am

Well, that was quick! Congratulations and good luck. Don't be too hard on yourself... and relax. If it is meant to happen... it will.


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