7 Qualities Of A Great Sex Partner  

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6/8/2006 2:31 am

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7 Qualities Of A Great Sex Partner

A truly sexually compatible partner is hard to find indeed. A woman with the right body and the right moves can fill your fantasies for years after you break up. So if you run across one of the good ones, consider hanging on for dear life... because no matter what else goes wrong, at least you'll be getting good sex constantly. And that's very valuable.
Your perfect sex partner could be short or tall, rail thin or voluptuous, young or older, bright or dumb as nails. What matters is that she suits you and you have chemistry in the bedroom.

I'm going to assume she's pretty and explore the less superficial elements of what makes a perfect sex partner. Read below to see how high she ranks in sex-ability.

1- She's clean
First and foremost your perfect sex partner needs to be well manicured. She's trimmed, groomed and pampered. Her skin is soft and clear. She smells sweet. When you venture down to her vagina, you don't detect any strange or unpleasant smells. She owns a medicine cabinet full of lotions and beauty aids all meant to make her look, feel and smell terrific.

This is the kind of girl who perpetually seems like she's fresh out of the shower. And even first thing in the morning, she can still get you hot and bothered.

2- She aces the oral test
She likes to please you orally and is extremely adept at it. She basically does it whenever you please and enjoys it immensely. She does little tricks to heighten the sensation, like flicking her tongue around your member and using her hands. She looks into your eyes and is totally focused on pleasing you. The whole world disappears around you when she gives you this special attention. She will even offer oral sex without you having to hint at it.

3- She's open to new adventures
She open to anything you want to try. It could be anal sex, it could be dirty talk, hell, it could be black masks and whips if that's your thing! Anything you can dream up is fair game. This allows every desire you have to be fulfilled, so why go elsewhere? The point is, you're into it, and she's giving you the green light.

4- She proposes new things to try
On the other hand, she also brings some ideas of her own to the table, or rather the bed. She reads up on sex and is familiar with the most fulfilling positions and the newest sex toys, and she knows what sex-improving exercises she can do to make your sex tremendously satisfying.

She has imagination and unquenchable desires that she isn't afraid to share with you. This shows that she's comfortable with you and has a healthy sexuality. She's so comfortable, in fact, that she might even invite one of her friends.

On a related note, she will be the one to introduce new things. She will come to you and initiate sex; this will make you feel more desired.

5- She's got a sexy shape
This means different things to us all, but I think we can agree that ample breasts, full lips and a tight body are universally desired. There's a pleasant absence of cellulite on her thighs and butt. And hopefully she's comfortable with herself and knows how to dress to accentuate her positive features. It's impossible to see her nude without thinking sex. In fact, just seeing her half-naked or touching her leg in bed is enough to get you going.

6- She doesn't rush you
Have you ever been with a really attractive girl who did all the right things sexually but just didn't satisfy you? Chances are this happens because you felt pressure to perform or she was rushing you through it. This messes up your rhythm and your whole performance. When you find a perfect sex partner, you won't constantly be checking your watch and will be able to focus on the task at hand.

7- She has that je ne sais quoi
This is difficult to define. In the simplest terms, this quality is an animal attraction that motivates you to go the extra mile sexually. For instance, after round one of sheet wrestling, you'd fall asleep next to a lesser woman, but not this one. She somehow makes you rise to the occasion to have sex multiple times, exhausting you physically, but never dampening your desire. She sends you into a frenzy. She's like Jell-O, there's always room for more. You can't get enough of her or she of you.

your perfect partner is out there

Finding an outstanding sex partner takes a huge burden off your mind. It's as important as, for instance, a guarantee that your bank account will never be empty or being indispensable at work.
If you can recognize and hold on to her, you will never have to go without good sex. It's one part of your life you can just enjoy and not stress over. Let her fuel your real-life sex, as well as your fantasies.

Article Suggested By: Alex I., Arab, AL

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