so why only married men?  

rm_Iwillwait4u2 54F
1274 posts
3/31/2006 1:59 pm

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5/11/2006 3:49 pm

so why only married men?

granted have not put up alot in my profile, and my other profile alot of people knew me, now with being honest...I get the married men?
I do not think so...I'm not into married men, never have been, never will be!
so do people think cause you have herpes, that you sleep around? and will basically sleep with anything? or anyone??? NOT!


bipolybabe 56F

4/1/2006 9:48 am

Take a look at my profile. The more carefully you define what you're looking for, the more likely you are to find it.

Also, my guess is that on this site there are just a huge proportion of married men looking for some on the side. And, they can't help being hopeful. So, they write us and maybe they haven't even read your profile!

So, again, no, I don't think it's the herpes or anything about you. It's just what's going on with them.

Look, I've had herpes for a dozen years, got them in a long-term relationship, and it never bothered me until I started "dating" more casually. In my last two long-term relationships, I gave them the gift that keeps on giving, and it wasn't a big deal.

I would be happy to talk to you about what has helped me to let go of feeling like herpes is a curse. Just email me, and we'll get in touch.




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BaronessK 53F

5/11/2006 1:33 pm

It's not you; it's THEM. They want to stay married but yet bitch about what is or isn't 'right' in their actual relationship. I have repeatedly said things like 'If you are married I will be glad to talk to you...and your wife...and her lawyer.' This site actually refused to let me put that in my profile several times, so now I just email it to them. I constantly state things close to that in my profile, but they write anyway; same goes for things I specifically stated were NOT 'negotiable' (distance, personality type, etcetera). They are just shooting in the dark, in my opinion; that and they figure someone looking for either friends with benefits type relationship (ignoring the 'relationship' part) or just not specifically looking for long term until whenever/whatever happens, that someone (like me or you) is willing to 'settle' or is just so horny that they're not 'picky'...which, of course, is a load of crap. J (male friend of mine) mentioned that when he had his profile on here that he specifically stated single or otherwise not attached (no one married, no one separated, no one dating anyone else, etcetera); he met one female on here that never mentioned until they met that she was, in fact, still married. While I understand that there are cases where there is a legal or whatever else reason for not being divorced yet, it's rare; usually it's the male (or female) trying to cheat. I don't understand a cheater's mentality at all, except to me it's not acceptable and it's stupid. From some of your other posts it does seem like your love life is looking up, though; hope it continues.

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