Would you....  

rm_Iwillwait4u2 54F
1274 posts
5/30/2006 9:44 am

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6/6/2006 8:53 am

Would you....

make yourself over to keep a relationship???? if so...why?? Why would you change yourself for that one person?

Would he/she do it for you? if the roles were reversed?


cookiequeen1000 54F

5/31/2006 4:00 am

Been there, done that. Doesn't work. Peopel are the way they are. They fundamentally, don't change. If you're not right the way you are for the relationship, then you're in the wrong relationship.

saddletrampsk 55F

6/4/2006 4:56 pm

The only person you should change for is yourself..

BaronessK 53F

6/5/2006 11:13 pm

When the other person makes you want to be a 'better person'.... Priorities, I suppose; but overall, would I change merely because someone thought I should? No; there are exceptions, of course, if it were something {for example] like a habit I had that really annoyed them. Too often, though, people do go into a relationship thinking {subconsciously and consciously} that "This is the perfect person, except for...." I don't do that, except to file the 'except' away as part of their wonderful personality {and leaving it at that, not to be changed but accepted}.

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