Wondering..........Thoughts for today........  

rm_Iwillwait4u2 54F
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5/16/2006 7:08 am

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5/21/2006 10:31 am

Wondering..........Thoughts for today........

Do people really tell the truth in their profiles? Do you Think before you write in it? About what you are actually looking for?
It seems most men are looking for a barbie, and women are looking for their STUD...But why can't we make friends along the way, instead of just jumpin into bed right away? a conquest maybe lasts only one night, while a friend could last forever, and if it gets farther, maybe a conquest also!???
Does this even make sense?


cookiequeen1000 54F

5/16/2006 12:22 pm

Makes perfect sense to me. I wasn't really sure of what to say about myself in my profile. We all are our own worst judges, but made the best possible choices from the pull down options available & have tweaked them a bit since. Do plan to re-write that part when I figure out what I want to say. Other than that, I was very honest in my profile and have been contacted, for the most part, by exactly the type of people I was hoping to find. With the H, I'm not so much in the conquest stage anyway anymore. Finding new friends is primary. My lifestyle choice leans toward polyamory, so am finding and narrowing down suitable people who fit into my life & I theirs.

Still think that rewriting and being more honest and more specific about what I want and don't want, will bring the best results.

Amazingly enough, the first guy who contacted me is actually just what I was looking for. And he didn't rush to get into my pants. He took over a month before he asked to meet me. His focus was to get to know me and find out what was in my head. What a concept. His profile didn't have any dick pics either (hate those).

Haven't noticed men looking for a Barbie. Have noticed that they're looking for confident, independent, fun-loving, responsible, real women. A nice body may be a bonus, but what matters most is what's on the inside.

JuicyBBW1001 56F

5/19/2006 3:19 pm

Makes sense to me


digdug41 50M

5/21/2006 8:36 am

I was looking for a married woman who wanted to reach out and find some fun on the side but as I've gone along I've just made alot of new friends and thatbeats the hell out of just a fuck but I wouldn't rule them out but I am a slow mover when it comes to things like thatbecause I want to know what I am getting into and who I am getting into it with

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