The Bar Scene  

rm_Hrny_me_113 49M
7 posts
7/9/2006 9:44 am

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7/14/2006 3:55 pm

The Bar Scene

I do not fit in with the bar scene. On Friday night 5 coworkers, one spouse and one friend met at a bar in downtown Lafayette to celebrate one of the coworker's b-day. So we are all hanging out, I'm drinking a Guiness (or three) and enjoying the conversation. I kept looking around the room and there were all of these beautiful woman in the place and I didn't know where to start? I was with coworkers and that would have been disastrous to attempt anything in front of them, but what does a shy guy do? Let me just say, "getting laid" is not the objective, but when I'm in this room with so many pretty ladies it certainly crosses the mind!

The first question really is, what does a guy look for to clue him into the state of a woman. Sure, the ring for marriage, but what else? How do I know a woman is approachable? If that hurdle can be met, then the next is the approach. That might be the bigger hurdle lol.

I won't be able to write to this blog for a while. The upcoming week is a motorcycle safety course after work until 10:00 p.m. every night and then next weekend is my Navy Reserve weekend. Hopefully there will be some experience in between that will be worth figuring out. Thank you to all of you who have dropped a line; it really does help!



sinful_smurfette 44F
1225 posts
7/14/2006 11:56 am

There is one picture on your profile I think is absolutely fantastic... to most it is Penthouse porn. But, I see it as art.

Ok... Shy Guy. What are we going to do with you? Look for women who just looked at you... or are looking your way... and doing anything with their hair. If you caught them looking at you and they had their hands in their hair before and after they look away. You have a green light, baby.

Also, it is scientific that the instant that we see something that stimulates us, our eyes widen for a split second. If you can catch this brief second of eyes/pupil widening... and hold it. You are golden.

Good luck!
xoxox {=}

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