whats it all about alfie- rant  

rm_Honeyluce 46F
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7/15/2006 7:39 pm

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7/26/2006 5:52 pm

whats it all about alfie- rant

today was a celebration of a friends birthday... part of the eve here partner was bitchin about a mate who was all take take take.. He asked me, how many friends do i hve tht would drop every thing and be there for me? him thinking his bird, my mte was one that did!! Only she hasnt ever! Got me thinking.... do you say to ur friend that they let you down or do you acept the fact and not put them into the position of disapointing you. I know this girlfriend of mine thinks she dosnt need to put any effort into our friendship, but she does. All relationships need some input and attention. Its starting to hurt now.. Im not just gd for parties and gd times.. i need more. Quite a few times ive drop every thing for her when she called and needed a mate... and when ive called her.. it was a different story.
i dont need the constant reasurance but i do expect more.. why do people take what they are not prepared to give???

rm_h2k6 45M
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7/17/2006 4:37 pm

You can try and treat people the way you'd like to be treated but it doesn't always work like that. What do you want from her? It seems you are a better friend that she is to you...if she's a friend then you can tell her you're not happy with the 'take, take, take' aspect of her friendship.

If she's for real she'll understand.

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