Been on this site for months......  

rm_HolditSoftly 56M
4 posts
4/5/2006 7:57 pm

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7/2/2009 9:35 am

Been on this site for months......


Is it impossible to get communications if you are not a paid subscriber? This seems to be the only way to actually communicate with anyone. What are your experiences?

rm_stray173 56F

4/5/2006 10:42 pm

Hi Holdit,
Here's a couple of things: You want easy, no strings sex - that's more of a guy's dream then the average woman's. There are lots of women interested in no-strings sex, but usually we like to be seduced a bit first. Your offering the typical guy thing: let's be friends who fuck. And then you add the kicker: I can't be bothered to pay for the membership or post a picture, so you buy a membership, and then contact me for no strings sex. Only very unattractive women would consider going for that. I'm half kidding, but I think I'm right.

This is a sex-oriented site, so I'll bet the male members (ha) outnumber the pussies by 3 to 1 - probably more, if you take out the women who are here to find professional clientelle. Women get innundated with emails - tons every day, even without a picture, and the men here compete for their attention. The ones who get my attention get it with unusual, creative or brilliant writing. Some women go for the photo. Some for indications of what you do for a living. Others for their kinky match.

if you really want to meet someone for a quickie, spring for a membership, in my humble opinion.

Of course, you could always try the chat rooms. You don't have to pay for that.


rm_HolditSoftly 56M
8 posts
4/7/2006 4:44 pm

Nicly put from an employee's point of view. Of course, I should join and hand over my credit card information to this site. I certainly am not interested in the average woman.

I certainly understand the ratios of those on this site and the odds of any one person taking note of my limited bio inforamtion. However, rest assured, she which does will be a very happy gal. For my needs are simple, my looks (I'm told) are good, my passion is high and my kindness is endless. She which inquires would (in time) receive her photo and it would be mine, not some chosen model's. Some of the excitement lies within the mystery and anticipation. I would not want to spoil that.

On another note; Your writing style is very nice and I enjoy reading your blog which seems to be both humerous and serious at different moments. It is unfortunate that you are not closer to Colorado for my travel is limited, at this time.


rm_HolditSoftly 56M
8 posts
7/2/2009 9:35 am

Glennablui, You are certainly one, I would love to meet.


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