What do I want from you?  

rm_Happyfree50 67M
50 posts
8/10/2006 7:16 pm

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8/10/2006 9:17 pm

What do I want from you?

I have been thinking about this one for a long time. I have been married twice. First for 8 years and the last one for 24. We are technically married but the divorce is proceeding slowly and finding many bumps in the road. I hope it will be done in a couple of months. The question below has been on my mind for the last 18 months. The process of looking at it is what made me leave my last wife and look for solitude to find my personal joy again. The question is not being asked about a future mate, I am not in that market. I think it is possible to love a lot of different people all at the same time -- without having group sex, I mean -- and keep my self intact and happy. So, anyway, I am sort of outlining the perfect friendship. What are my chances?

What do I want from a woman?

Friendship, an occasional back or foot rub, support, spooning in the middle of the night, sex -- lots of sex, honesty, patience, straight answers, clear communications, shared wisdom, a gentle touch just because, evenings in conversation, experimentation, thnking outside the box, someone who will bait her own hook, Someone who will keep a promise not just use it as the starting point for future negotiations, someone who won't fuck with me -- and someone who will.

What am I offering in return?

All of the above, plus a willingness to listen and hear what she is saying. Respect for her thoughts, feelings and ideas, no bullshit and no drama, the occasional camp-out in the mountains and some perfect summer days hiking by the rivers and streams around here. An isolated cabin where howling at the moon is not just allowed, it is encouraged. I will honnor the goddess her as she honors the god in me, also a quirky sense of humor, the occasional poem -- just because, good wine, good food and someone to cover her "6" if needed.

amoldenough 71F
16436 posts
8/10/2006 7:52 pm

Happy-I hope you find her.

"Don't cry because it's over; smile because it happened."

abitcrazy4sex 46M
1335 posts
8/10/2006 7:56 pm

best of luck in your search

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