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Got42DDD's Blog WHY am I HERE?
 
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I hope you enjoy your stay. Please feel free to post any of your comments or questions.
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Why am I Here,
Why are You Here Poll Question,
Whos Line is it Anyway,
If Winks were Dollars,
How Far will You GO,
Guys, Do You Really Want to Know

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Why am I here?
Posted:Aug 1, 2006 12:26 am
Last Updated:Feb 10, 2013 5:41 pm
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My ultimate goal was to find a person, who was open minded and sexual, for a long term relationship. Many people have told me that Passion is not the place to find a relationship. I was attracted to Passion because it advertised "Sexy personals for passionate singles" which is what I was looking for. Not knowing it is the same site as AdultFriendFinder which is a hook up swinger site.

Maybe match is a better place to find love, but there are certain things I am into that I can't put on a match profile. Such as... Strapons, threesomes(mmf), swinging as a couple etc...

Hook ups are not a problem for me - it is finding a partner who wants to do things together inside and outside the bedroom. Something with a future.

I don't understand some men on this site. No one seems to want a relationship. Seems like they are content with jerking off at home by themselves rather than date someone.

I have enough friends and booty calls I could make if I wanted that. It is love that I am seeking.

Hope I explained why I am on here.
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As a WOMAN on Passion
Posted:Nov 18, 2007 9:30 pm
Last Updated:Nov 10, 2010 7:27 am
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There is such a weird thing that goes on...

You sign up and BAMMMMMM!!!

You are getting emails, winks, invites, offers, proposals etc... You can't believe it, it has only been a day since you joined... You add a few pictures and the email doubles and triples.

You start answering these emails and winks from all of these men. You actually become a little picky because there are SO MANY men to choose from, why not be picky? Why settle, right?

You overlook the "nice" guy and GO for the HOT muscular guy with the tatts because he is so sexy...

Then you find out - he just wanted to get laid, and informs you that you can call him whenever you want to "F" but anything else is out of the question. He is too busy for a relationship, he just got out of a relationship etc...

So that HIGH you were on because of all that email and attention, has turned into something very degrading.

The thought comes across your mind and stays there, "Aren't I good for anything else, other than sex? Is that why so many married men and business men contact me? They don't care that I am single. They don't care what I think. They don't care what I like. They just think they can get a quick lay."

If you, as a man, are looking for a women who would sleep with just about anyone, don't expect to find her on this web site, she is at your local bar at 4am. Try there first.

Sorry to vent again... I am so glad I didn't pay for this membership. Thanks Passion!
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Is this site destined to fail?
Posted:Nov 18, 2007 9:15 pm
Last Updated:Feb 10, 2013 5:32 pm
12961 Views

By now, if you are looking though blogs then, you have been on here for a little bit. You, being a man, placed an ad on this site because you bought into the advertising pitch that you could get laid fast and easily. Then you found out that most of the "hot" profiles were fake ads trying to get you to pay for other sites. Did you ask yourself why would this hot model-type blonde, with the big fake t*tties, need a personals ad to get laid? Weren't you a little suspicious???

Then you finally found some ads for real women, but they seem to want some strings attached or outside of the bedroom stuff too...

Why won't the women if this site meet me???
Why do they want to talk and be friends first???
Why do they want me to call them after???
Don't they know this is a sex site???


I know this doesn't apply to ALL men or ALL women, but most...

Men are horny... PERIOD!
Women are horny too, just more picky about their partners.

Why should this site be any different than real life???
2 Comments
This is me and what I am looking for
Posted:Apr 5, 2007 8:15 pm
Last Updated:Jan 2, 2008 8:31 pm
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Looking for Dating...

I am looking for men to have some fun with - IN and OUT of the bedroom. If you are only looking for a "fun" buddy, then I would not be the right woman for you. I am looking for a single man who is generally interested in dating and seeing where it goes. I would not be opposed to a long term relationship.

I am not kidding myself, I don't expect to find my Mr Wonderful on here, but I guess I will try until my subscription runs out. Then it's back to match for me.

About Me:
I can be comfortable at a nice Italian place having wine by candlelight or at a sports bar having chicken wings and a beer, I will watch the game with you as long as you promise to take care of my needs afterwards, I love sex it can be slow and sensual to "F my brains out" hard depending on my mood, I love to kiss (it is required!), I like to go out for drinks or stay at home on the couch with a good cup of coffee, I love the rain, I like to fish/camp yet still get my pedicures, I love candlelight and romance most of all.
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GUYS Do you really want to know?
Posted:Jan 22, 2007 3:09 pm
Last Updated:Dec 12, 2010 5:45 pm
16517 Views

Guys: I would like your opinion, if a woman is not interested in you - DO you want to know the reason? Or is a simple "No Thanks" sufficient?

I usually write back to a person and tell them why I am not interested. Sometimes it's their location, their age, etc...

Do you care why or is a short "Thanks, but not interested" ok?

Answering this would really help the ladies of this site. Good luck on your search!
14 Comments , 3 Pending
If WINKS were Dollars...
Posted:Nov 9, 2006 2:15 pm
Last Updated:Dec 12, 2010 5:46 pm
14985 Views

I would not need to work.

Seems like the winks are used so much on this site. I would like your opinion on winks. I know they are considered to be "ice breakers".

Do you think that someone has to acknowledge all the winks they receive?

I get a lot of winks daily and I used to answer them all, even if it was just a plain "Thank you for the wink, however I think we are too far from eachother", "Thank you for the wink but the age difference is too great" etc... I always followed it with a "Good luck on your search". I find that now I do a lot more deleting the winks than answering them. (And a lot of them are from paying members, why can't they just write a quick email, might get a better response)

What do you think? Should a person have to thank another person for just sending a wink?
6 Comments
Why are you here? Poll Question
Posted:Aug 7, 2006 12:15 pm
Last Updated:Mar 7, 2009 11:10 am
15707 Views

I have wanted to ask the men and women of Passion/AdultFriendFinder why they joined this type of site?

Please select which answer is closest to your reason.
Heard about it from a friend and was just curious about it
Thought it was an easy way to hook up (sexually)
I love showing off on cam
I love watching other people's cams
Figured it was an easy place to find people with similiar kinks/fetishes
I love looking at other people's nude pics/cams to pleasure myself
I don't have much luck with the bar/club scene, so said what the heck
My life is too busy to have a relationship, just want sex
I am married/attached and want some on the side
I am open to meeting someone steady, but have my doubts that it is possible on here
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