I wonder why?  

rm_Gentle12553 68M
806 posts
4/4/2006 3:12 am

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4/12/2006 6:36 am

I wonder why?


I answered a note from a new friend....she replied that things were piling up around her and that she had experienced a very bad day....didn't know when she could post again and asked that I be patient with her.....

I wrote a quick note back that she should take her time that I would be here when she needed me and asked if there was anything I could do? I closed my note with "Don't sweat the small stuff"

This morning I receive a very terse little note with a lecture on my behavior...."Does two Brain Cycst count as small stuff? and the telling not to use such cliches when writing......

I just wonder....Did she remotely thing I was making "light" of her illness...when I had no idea she was ill? Did I offend her? Was my offer of help superfloucous?

Her answer to me appeard to be "superior." "I know better than you do....you're an idiot....you should shut up" is what I read from her correcting note.. Perhaps it is her illness and for that I am sad....

But you know something.....

"Don't sweat the small stuff" and it's all small stuff...

Still I wonder why?

imLadyBambi 59M/51F

4/4/2006 6:05 am

Hey, in regard to her insulting response: take your own advise - don't sweat the small stuff! lol


bluegirl39 51F

4/4/2006 6:24 am

when people are scared they often lash out at others...smile and hug for you


MOfunNOWWOW 56F

4/4/2006 7:30 am

Sugar count yourself as a good friedn to her. Seems we always hurt the ones we love the best! Hugs and kisses! Also, as you and Bambi said....don't sweat the small stuff!


MOMO
just a squirrel trying to get a nut


rm_Gentle12553 68M
1378 posts
4/4/2006 1:36 pm

You know, you are correct..."Don't sweat the small stuff"


HBowt2 60F

4/8/2006 2:28 pm

they said it all......


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