Why am I really here?  

rm_FunFem73 45F
26 posts
8/6/2006 4:33 am

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8/11/2006 5:41 am

Why am I really here?

Hello there! Just been checking through my emails and havent had much time recently to get back to people - to those who have a command of the English Language, a brain and something more to say for themselves then send a picture of their Cock with the promise of the best time you will ever have..... I do apologise for not emailing you back.

For those who dont have the same things going for them and obviously having such a Wonderful Piece of Manhood that you feel you dont need to say anything else to sell yourself - Im just not able to reply to you as I just wouldnt be a match for you. Have I been living a sheltered life for too long?????

The way to this girls heart, mind, soul and body or which ever piece you may be looking to seek would need more then the promise of 9 inchs plus and the best night of her life.

This girl doesnt wear a habit and belives in Live and Let Live but maybe after a time you might get the idea of why you having such a bad sex life.

If you want to get a girl into bed - get a personality first

tenorsaxxman 67M

8/6/2006 5:33 am

That is so refreshing to hear someone say FunFem ! You rock !! ps. I think you would like my blog and would be a welcome addition to comment.


rm_PurryKitty2 49M/51F
9753 posts
8/6/2006 6:17 am


Purry {=}


earthShiva 61M

8/6/2006 6:57 am


Stumbled on your post this morning, and am only here to play the jester. I hope I can entertain you for a moment while you heed my irony.

Let's see if I have this clear - You get way too many cock photos, but you're way behind on corresponding with the rare individuals who, in fact, are literate enough to write you an intelligible response.

So explain to me. Why should men with personalities bother? You are, it would seem, giving equal attention to the cock photos. If you are representing yourself correctly, then what you have told everyone is that, in fact, there has been no reward forthcoming for any of the men who have taken the care to write you and show their personality. You haven't written them either. Why? Because you are spending some amount of time, however small, thinking about and responding to, even if only via this post, the cock pictures instead!

Could it be that this is not an accident? Could it be that you are inadvertently attracting this very response from men? Perhaps you should take a closer look at the responses you have gotten, and see if any of them merit some individual effort on your part. Then perhaps you should take a look at your profile, and see what you need to do attract the men that you want, rather than merely repel the ones you do not want with the presumption that the good ones will then show through.

There are good men here. Some of them are quite lonely. Find a way of bringing them to you, rather than just expecting that they will show up because you're here.

rm_FunFem73 replies on 8/6/2006 7:39 am:
Thanks for playing the Jester

I most certainly wouldnt disagree that there are some very nice guys on this site you do have alot going for them and I most certainly have made the effort to reply to people who have sent a mail with personality.

Being a Female on the site we are kind of out numbered by the males and not that I have a problem seeing a cock pic its the words that go with it just dont do it for me.

I think my profile is very clear in who and what Im about and the blog is just an extension of that.

As I said before Live and Let Live - Im certainly not here to judge anyone and if I am repelling the ones that I do want to attract well then I guess thats just my Loss

phoenix639 50F

8/6/2006 7:27 am

I quite agree.

Ive been saying this all along.

Yet the hanging i get from some people because im honest in my profile is unreal.

Two fingered salute to those with an idle brain i say.

rm_scott0454 45M

8/6/2006 7:48 am

wow thats all ill say

dragonheart2014 65M
4 posts
8/6/2006 7:50 am

I concur...
There are GOOD men on this site.. and others of course. Many of us ARE lonely.. not because we need to get a personality but because we don't fit in with the warrior culture that is expected of us.. We are original thinkers and movers of civiizations. And when I write an intelligent (well at least the spelling is correct) letter to a woman introducing myself, 99 times out of a hundred all I get back is silence..... When selfish men and sensitive souls get the same reward.. well.... the selfish are oblivious to anyone else anyway but the person striving for meaning is discouraged and thinks that they themselves are undesirable.. Come on ladies... stand by your man... If you like the way the world is going , then say nothing.... It will continue.. Orrr, speak up... and at least encourage good men...

oraladventure05 53M

8/6/2006 8:10 am

Fun mwaaahhh , ya said a mouthful there, and there isnt a single person with a functioning brain that could dispute the truth of what your saying..... I applaud you for saying it!


fisheah690 33M
6 posts
8/6/2006 8:34 am

Well Here it is... I have read all these post and while they all seem to have some point after the first main post it all spins down to ppl being offended by what u have said. But don't lump me in with them just my personal take on all this lol. but maybe Jester has a point a small one about ur profile and what ur looking for.

so I am gonna do some translating lol bare with me as this is how some guys think.

Looking to meet good looking people for fun times. (looking for perfect looking men) Im more the type who is into fun both in and out of the bedroom. (I like sex and other stuff)In not really the one night kind of girl but not looking for anything to heavy either.(I want a call boy here when i need him gone when i don't) Would be nice to meet someone who is open to seeing what happens and take it from there...(i like the freaky stuff) Open to suggestions and look forward to hearing from you soon!!!(teach me all u know) Be honest about what your looking for - only interested in honest and genuine people and no mind games please Being Single I have to say my preference would be to meet someone who is unattached. (I'm free and what u to be...)

rm_rh542447 57M/47F

8/6/2006 8:41 am

Hey funfem, there are alot of guys still here that enjoy looking into a womans eyes also and not just her body, Im married to are trying to do the bi thing for her, but as stated there are more than just (pardon the pun) dick tits and pussy. Me personally i like the sparkle in a womans eyes when you look at her not the sparkle in her pants, I can get pussy anywhere the eye part you cant. So in answering your question there are guys out here that are looking for you not just your body.

fisheah690 33M
6 posts
8/6/2006 8:42 am

Girl be who u are nothing less and take nothing short of what u are looking for... To hell with the ignorant self centered ppl on this site give it no weight. U are above it and smarter than that. Best Wishes on your journey of life hope it takes a turn in your direction... Best wishes ~Greg~

rm_FunFem73 replies on 8/6/2006 9:06 am:
Thank you for the giggle but dont always go by the theory "What a woman really means is.." I read your profile and if you were 10 years older. Dont you loose what your about

penkitten1967 45M
3 posts
8/6/2006 8:47 am

look guys, the girl is write so build a bridge and get over it

some of you disprove darwins theory that man has evolved since the ape days, for god sake, what happened to charisma, charm and chivalry???

now as for funfem, as you will note we have no foto, there are a number of possible reasons for this but I'm plumping for the theory, in the absence of any eveidence to the contrary!, that shes as ugle as a babboons arse and looking for george clooney! as for me? the search for celine dion continues........................

goodguysneedit2 57M

8/6/2006 8:49 am

At least you're blogging about it. A lot of women scare completely away due to the assclowns...but you'll find some good guys in Blogville. They may live 1000 miles from you, but...LOL...atleast they exists, eh?

rm_FunFem73 replies on 8/6/2006 1:01 pm:
Hello u

Thanks for your post. Im only just realising that the majority of my posts back on my blog are non Irish - see the world us Irish Gals live in.... knew I should have left the place years ago

oraladventure05 53M

8/6/2006 8:54 am

Ive seen fun fem, an if baboons arses looked like her wed all be chasing them!

hotandhorny107 60F

8/6/2006 9:08 am

Yes there are a few good men out there but you have to sort through the bullshit to find them. I too get those type of emails and photos and choose to read all that I get. That way I can be amused at the ones that think all I need is a photo of their penis to be interested. NOT.....

Pricia_1 52F

8/6/2006 9:33 am

I'm late but I must....Nuff Said!!!

rm_GenuineTaste 52F
261 posts
8/6/2006 9:35 am

The title of your post brought me your way. The truth of what you speak, sparked me to leave a comment. You go GIRL! Cheers to you. Wonder if many MEN will listen and learn!

Live&Let Live...Live&Learn

Catdoc2000 58M

8/6/2006 10:36 am

I was a silver member for 4 months and was selective in who I emailed, had an intelligent broad based profile and sent out over 300 emails Total. I got some 45 replies and some of them were multiples from the same woman. I moved too fast for some, too slow for others and lost others to the ass clowns or just fear when the reality of what they were about to do sunk in...
The ratio of men to women is 10:1 here so If you get one decent email out of 10 you're doing better than I did.

P.S. I did meet with "success" on more than one occasion but in the end I need more than just "success" and that in itself is a danger. Be careful what you wish for...

penkitten1967 45M
3 posts
8/7/2006 4:00 pm

Well unlike you I'm not one of the chosen ones who have been granted a viewing so I can only take your word on that!

It's all subjective anyway but I would like funfem to post a picture, who knows, maybe she's what I'm looking for!!!!!

NawtyIrishLad 38M

8/7/2006 7:39 pm

Well said huni!!!

I've just got rid of my old profile, with its pics. I had doctored a pic of my penis to make people laugh Worked when people have a sense of humour!!! Alas many do not!!!!! Anyway good luck finding the right man sweetie!!!

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