Is there any way to make this place work without paying?  

rm_FrankTT4 44M
75 posts
5/21/2006 7:32 pm

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6/15/2006 7:20 pm

Is there any way to make this place work without paying?

I'm kinda sceptical about this place in general - is there any way of making it work without subscribing?

I'm not adverse to paying, I just think it's a pretty poor value for men. If I was a woman, different story.

ruth_858585 32F

5/21/2006 8:23 pm

how is that a different story?

rm_FrankTT4 44M
25 posts
5/21/2006 9:06 pm


I think it's a different story because the ratio of Men - Women is about 20:1, so a women have a much better chance of getting noticed and finding what they're looking for.

Simple law of supply and demand.

rm_FrankTT4 44M
25 posts
5/22/2006 2:15 pm

Hey LLL2,

Thanks for the insight. Honestly, this seems like WAAAAY too much work to me. Putting a ton of time in to maybe get a contact or two seems crazy for a guy, unless he really enjoys the blogging etc...

If my situation didn't require discretion, I'd just hit the bars with my buddies... I was always very successful meeting women that way. Seems tiresome to spend a whole lot of time trying to catch the eye of women that, chances are, I wouldn't be attracted to anyway. Hrrmph

FunFlirty4u 47F

5/23/2006 1:10 pm

In my local area, I have met tons of people through the chat room. We regularly get togeter for meets in person where having a membership or not does nothing for you, its all you. When I haven't met people in person or through seeing their personality in chat its usually because they have sparked some interest in me usually by what they've said in their profile or an interesting picture.

rm_FrankTT4 44M
25 posts
5/28/2006 7:32 pm

^ All good points, thanks.

Tub43or4 49M/46F

6/13/2006 4:34 pm

Dude, before you think the Titanic is turning around; male here. You have some good photos, and a good profile. A good sense of humour also and your blog is neat. I believe you are here with partners approval.
Rule of thumb is this; men are goofs. They are like sales people - 80% of us are useless.
So public bar or discreet online, 80% of your competition sucks and have little attractive to sell.
If your partner is cognizant of your ad, include her. Most men have fishy stories about spouses being ok with are going to get painted and passed by. A bi-curious spouse is intriquing. Show your face readily. It overcomes the above hesitancy.
Go to the Meet and greets. You will meet open minded people. They will introduce you to others. The circle expands and you will connect with the "right" person/persons.
Also, if wife is curious, there is a ton of ground between unhappy sex life and gang-bangs and sex parties. Find where you fit.
Keep up the good work.

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