40 something  

rm_Evil_8 52M
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8/2/2006 10:42 am

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8/3/2006 5:11 am

40 something

I am 40 and I don't like bars or church. Many of the friends I had have married and moved. So where do guys go to find friends. I work in a small company and I know they don't have the same interests as I have.

I would like to interact with people in the same geographical area that I am in. You know, make contacts that lead to friendships outside of cyberspace. But unless you like drinking, country music and NASCAR this area is tough to find people to connect with.

The people that I have tried to interact with on this site that I have connected with live too far away to hop over for a movie or meet for coffee. Either that or they just want to swing. Since I am a "single" guy and I don't have the "perfect" body the swingers aren't eager to go out of their way to befriend me either.

I know this sounds like I'm whining, but dammit I'm running out of ideas.

The perfect friend wouldn't look at me weird when I talk about sex, or engage me with an intelligent discustion about current events or listen to me when I rant about PG13 horror movie remakes.

They would not ask me to play poker at 10pm on a weeknight. Nor would they expect that anytime I see them it would have to be me that drives to their house usually under the pretext to fix something and when I got there subject me to watching them play Madden Football on the Playstaition.

Well enough of this.

SuzieQ4U60 62F

8/2/2006 11:38 am

Evil, I know exactly what you are talking about. I don't do bars nor do I go to church, well not anymore anyway. It is hard to meet people. I have talked to a few people locally, and some just want to have sex, but there are some that are real, genuine, caring people. Keep looking here or, find something....like a hobbie, that interests you and maybe you will meet someone that way. I like stained glass, so I have thought about taking a stained glass class to learn to do it myself. I would also like to try molding clay on a potters wheel. I haven't found anything locally, but I am going to keep looking.
Hang in there, something will happen. In the meantime, write me anytime. I'd love to be your friend.


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