On the Prowl... (lol)  

rm_Erus_Amans 42M
4 posts
6/24/2006 11:01 am

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On the Prowl... (lol)

Well here I am single yet again.

Sometimes one must consider their situation and make what may seem to be extreme choices. If you ever feel like you are in a rut that is leaving you wonder where you are? Well that is what I found myself doing. And just so everyone out there that is in a relationship that is just coasting along, ask yourself where is it going and do I, or we, want to be there. In short save yourselves the hassle and call things how they are and learn to live with it that way. Yes I realize that life can be hard sometimes and trust me I know that and have been there. But for all those in a relationship out there I have a couple of sugestions.

First thing is "Honesty" yes it is a scarry thought but it goes beyond just telling the truth when it is asked. I am talking about being honest with each others feelings, emotions, and thoughts. Also to be honest with what is consivable in the future. Bring into discussion how each feel about future possibilities and things that could produce potentialy positive changes.

Now all that leads to communication. Ya I know that is a big one. Ok in retrospect of my own life I know that I may not be one of the biggest people to say something about how I am feeling. Lets get real not a lot of guys are. But also I am realizing, at least in my experiences, there are a lot of women that don't care what a guy feels emontionally. All that I am saying is that yes communication is a two way street and yes one has to listen as well as speak. And listening is more than just hearing the words and then not carring later. And with that point I know both men and women are guilty of.

All I am saying is live in reality. If you arn't having a prosporus relationship then honestly look at it and discuss it with an open mind and really consider the veiwpoints and feelings on both sides.

After all for those wanting love, love is an emotion that should constantly awaken your senses. Now for those looking for just the sex, be honest don't play a phony love card. The only thing that you will get is a jaded individual that has a runied consept of love, a poor veiwpoint, and a closed mind.


'now that got carried away a bit'

rainbowsmurfet 39F

7/13/2006 4:37 pm

I like your thoughts... I still think we should get together someday. I would love to sit around over tea (coffee?) and pick your brain.....

PS -
Are you bi? for some reason I can't
get in to read your profile......

rm_Erus_Amans 42M
23 posts
7/14/2006 7:48 am

Well My brain is always free for the picking. Sometimes you might even find some bit of usles info in there. Coffee/Tea sounds good. And as for me no on the bi question, but I wonder why do you ask?

rainbowsmurfet 39F

7/14/2006 1:26 pm

Just more or less an off-the-wall question. Seems most of the men I meet lately are bi or bi curious. Just wondering if it is a trend.

But with you being a little ways away, it might have to be phone tea or virtual coffee *lol*

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