Why I Am Not Married  

rm_Eric0072005 52M
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9/12/2006 8:41 am

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9/12/2006 8:43 am

Why I Am Not Married


Because I haven't met the right woman. Period.

This evening, my collegues once again posing as `Aunties'and `Uncles' pestered me on this issue.

`Dun you want to marry?'
`Dun you want to settle down?'
`Dun you want stable company?'
Blah blah blah blah blah...

Of course I want!
What a dumb question or What dumb questions?

Dun I think I will make a good husband to a woman? Of course I think I will. Especially at this level of my maturity. But she hasn't ... appear ...yet.

I'm not going to get one from Vietnam. Neither am I going to fly to China and get one. This is not old times. This is the time of self-awareness. Knowing what I want and standing by my beliefs.

I am only going to have one that is not a stranger to me. That means I go by the long way. Relationship and friendship first. Then slowly feel each other out. And especially can talk of anything under the sun and the moon and the stars...

Yes. I may be in my 40s but I am NOT going to rush it. I CAN"T! IT IS NOT MY WAY! I am just like that. Please accept this ME!

Anyway as I cool down, I just want to say `Thank You' to all `Uncles' and `Aunties' esp these past 10 years or more. Thanks for your concern.

I must do it `My Way'. (The song )
To hell with rushing through to get a wife !

`He who finds a wife finds a good thing.' Proverbs


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