July 5th  

rm_Emerald3306 56F
5 posts
7/5/2006 3:20 pm

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7/24/2006 11:42 pm

July 5th

Man boy the more I get to know men that more I am thankful I am married. To start, A in Chicago, stood me up, something about getting a job that paid alot more than he would normally get. Thats great fine, but you dont' have a phone to leave me a quick message??? And now he says he's going to come here to visit and I can go visit him when he gets here... Oh ya, like I am going to hold my breath on that. Then there is s, well he called and said that he had to go out of town for 2 1/2 weeks. Again, what no phone, no email??? I told him to kiss off in an email. Then there is b, good old b, still in Minisota, still house on market, he just messages me when he needs to get off, well next time he messages me, I'll tell him it's 10 for the first three minutes and 3.00 a minute after that. Then next there is the other b, he came Monday promised me everything, and when it came to coming yesterday, suddenly his car didn't start and I have not heard from him since. And then today V, well that, that is just another one that wants to have phone sex, prior to us talking he was here on business all the time and then poof! suddenly he doesn't travel to here anymore on business... And now a note from J, that he wanted to ge my attention, Why? is he another one for the dumpster? These so called men are not going to do this to me again. I am not going to be there for them when it is convient for them or when they get horny.

siamsammy135 47M
33 posts
7/6/2006 6:58 am

hmmm...that all blows. sadly, many men are like that, and at this site i don't doubt that 90% or more of us are fake (at least in the dribble that we spool), but there are some good guys out there. for their sakes, i hope that the assholes haven't tainted their chances of meeting someone nice. sorry these guys have proverbially screwed you, and hopefully they haven't completely done that same to the nice guys out there. good luck all.

btw...i don't claim to be one of the good guys, but i'm not a complete ass either.

AnEdinburghGuy05 39M
52 posts
7/6/2006 1:51 pm

It's always anoying when you have a bad experience with someone,

It can be good to outline from the outset what you expect from guys you meet here, set some ground rules if you like. If you force them to think a little more about what you want up-front then you may have a better experience with this site.

Capricorn122879 38M  
13 posts
7/19/2006 11:31 am

Unfortunately, this site is filled with people who think they are ready for the lifestyle when in actuality they are not. I truly believe that the number people who pull the "no shows" and "I had to do this" or "something came up" are only intrigued by the thought of getting together with someone else. We are going to have bad experiences; however, it is important to not let those overshadow all of the erotic, sensual sexual experiences we have had with the "real" people on the site.

rm_Emerald3306 replies on 7/19/2006 7:15 pm:
Thank you dearestfor your support. Now when are you taking me out so I can pull on your nipples and spank your ass red??? Hummm

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