Intelligent Conversations are NECESSARY!:  

rm_Ellenback 59F
903 posts
4/20/2006 4:48 pm

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Intelligent Conversations are NECESSARY!:

For me, it doesn't seem to matter how great in bed you are, it's out of bed that matters more to me, although you HAVE to be great in bed..LOL Or, at least try to take direction!

It's not that I'm demanding of 'geniuses only' or anything, but I can't hold a conversation with someone where every other few words is the 'F' word!...For someone who loves sex as much as I do, I think it tends to overkill the sentence, and I cringe inwardly when I hear it utilized like that. But, in the heat of passion, I'll use it, so I'm definitely not a prude, but come on, having a beer on the patio is not the place to start pulling out the heavies...George Carlin was right when he talked about the 7 words you can't say on television...and that includes when there are children around, or you're likely to be overheard.

I recently spent time with someone who probably has more than a vested interested in continuing with me, but I found him uncouth, shallow, and focused on himself. Not once did he ask me anything about me, but instead talked about his own life endlessly. Add to that the fact that he wasn't really physically appealing, he burped a lot and didn't excuse himself, and didn't even say, "it's okay.." when I apologized to him for something beyond my control and which I couldn't help. See, that's me, in a nutshell... And no, NONE of that came across in any of our previous conversations, or when we hung out for a walk and a coffee...Best behaviour, I figure!

Smart, well-spoken men are so hot to me, and it helps if they are at least normal looking...and it's even better if they have great looks! Ok: the bar just went up another notch, hang tough Elle and wait it out a little longer next time...a guy can converse fine over emails and IM's, but in person, he can fall to pieces. At least, when you meet someone, you have a better perception of his capacity to keep up, in more ways than one...

But, how do you say to someone, "oh, sorry, you're way too dumb for me...!" Isn't that lumped into the, "too ugly, too short, too fat," thing that we really try not to touch upon for fear of hurting someone?

Still looking for the perfect 'exit' line for when I decide to bail, and NOT have them emailing and calling endlessly...

I find that I really prefer the mature men I've met - they tend to be more attentive lovers, great conversationalists, and their (ahem! - substitute another letter in the following word) ducks are in a row...of course, there are exceptions, like dumbass Mr. UNCOUTH... And, HE was single...blech!

And, to think, I watched Jeopardy with him - I think that's when it hit me the hardest!...

No, the dog notable for reindeer hunting in Siberia is the SAMOYED, not the Husky...*Doh!

Ok I'm feeling naughty...who's up for some smart azz fun? Wanna cause some trouble with me? (*taking notes, and maybe some prisoners!)

Almost forgot to mention, I won't be around much this weekend, as I have a longtime girlfriend (no, not THAT kind ya pervs!!!)coming up to visit me and stir up the pot a little...she's tiny, cute, and stacked, so yeah, we should have lots of fun! But, she's married, and unless she tells me otherwise, she's not into FUN (the kind we discuss most here! LO So we will just hang out, go jam, do a trade show together, maybe get a hotel room on Saturday and get tanked, hottub it, girl talk...that kind of thing! Since I moved back up to the urban centre, I have only seen her a few times, and I've known her for the better part of 25 years...Hmmmm think I should take some pictures for all you horndogs? I know for sure that Tit Man wants to see the boobs that were made into a big poster on the wall at the XRoadhouse! LOL Didn't know that a girl could win 'asshole of the month' with her boobs, did ya?


DRAGONSTATUS: ANTICIPATORY of smart guys in near future!!!


digdug41 50M

4/20/2006 5:39 pm

good luck with your search luv, Hope you find the man who sparks your thoughts and butters your popcorn

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rm_Ellenback 59F
966 posts
4/20/2006 6:41 pm

Thanks, that a guitar in your hands, or are you just glad to see me? LOL

Oh, and I've already found that guy, but he's busy right now...hehehe

And hot-buttered popcorn is one of my favs, how DID you know? LOL



iluvjbsinaz 56M

4/20/2006 7:29 pm

Geez, now we have to be able to carry on intelligent conversations?? In person??

horny4770 61M
8158 posts
4/21/2006 3:38 am


"Smart, well-spoken men are so hot to me, and it helps if they are at least normal looking...and it's even better if they have great looks!" just want it all don't you? LOL

I think men are generally worse than women in that sense but not always, I've met my own share of "Valley Girl" wanna-be's that are 'like, for real, so full of themselves' I had no idea why I was even in the room!

Keep the bar high and don't forget the pics for us horndogs! LOL

Have fun and give us a full report.


GuyWhoListens2u 57M
325 posts
4/21/2006 8:27 am


Your Jeopardy comment.. I am still laughing about it.

I do hope you have fun with your friend this weekend. In reading the things I had missed, it seems you are due for a "nice time for Elle".

justforfun3X3 58M
143 posts
4/21/2006 9:22 am

Good post, Elle!

I too find that intelligence is a turn on. I realized recently that all three of my current g/f's are very smart! One is a math major, in fact! The other two do accounting, management type jobs.

As for your impending weekend with your very "hot" sounding the hot tub...after a few drinks...maybe if your arm brushed her naked nipples a time or two...well, who knows? Worth a try, right?

Any hot tittie pics you want to put up are fine with me, Elle! Thanks for thinking about me!

Tit Man


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