*Dream a Little Dream of Him*  

rm_Dysgyzed 47F
3068 posts
6/12/2006 8:43 am

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*Dream a Little Dream of Him*

There were several reasons I came to this site, but mostly because I was searching for Him... the one who could make my Heart Sing, cause a *Sparkle* in this world, where "reciprocity" and "sincerity" were key components of our relationship...

I Know some things about Him, or at least I have my Clear Clues...

*He's Someone to help me Create and Achieve Great things in Our World.

*He's Him because we've Known one another before...there's a Spark of Recognition that'll take place, at least for me. He'll know there's a clearer, sharper tingle...the light of the setting may even change for him, but he may not be aware what it is... that it's the whisper of memory.

*He's a man between 45 & 55...I get the feeling that he's seen some of this world, and found some of it wanting. He's put his heart on the line, to have it run over. But he's willing to try it again, because cowardice is not in his nature.

*He's a man of Perception..the high level ability to see through the surface of things into the Real Truth. This makes him an expert at reading people, and his world is filled with those of True Heart, for he will not be able to tolerate the loud, the dishonest, the base, the stupid.

*In that same vain, he recognizes that screaming at one another, the slamming of doors, name callings, and high level drama and tension create a path of conflict that is dangerous for more than a mere moment. He understands that under those circumstaces, I will disengage, and that it's best for us to not persue one another again, at least until the storm is over.

*He's a man with dark hair, or at least what's left of it. He's more than likely naturally bald...not shaven, unless it's because he was going bald, and thought that he may as well help nature on her course. Oh, and he wears glasses too.

*He's a generous man, and not just to me (because hey...I *like* to give and receive gifts!) It won't surprise me to see that he's left a $20.00 tip for an outstanding waitress, and he won't wait around for especial thanks. He's not going to point it out to me either, at any time.

*He's a man with a wide chest. He has wide shoulders upon which to lay my head in acknowledgent, or bite, depending on the mood that strikes me.

*He's a man who Understands that I am a complex woman...filled with moods and modes, and he's not afraid of that, for he is a man very capable of Feeling, although he does not splatter them all at randm. He's judicious with what he's willing to share of himself. He recognizes that he is not for everyone, and is not bothered by this. Not everyone will Appreriate us, and this if for the Absolute best.

*He's a man who Understands Pure Concepts, although he has not Experienced
enough of them in his world so far: Nobility, Loyalty, Survival, Beauty, Wonder

*He's a man of Stimulation. He'll ignite my thoughts and imagination as well as my more "base" passions, which of course, he's more than willing to explore.

*He's ready to Laugh. I get the feeling that he hasn't done much of that recently. He's been stuck somehow, and I think he's realizing it's been a Prison of his own device. He's ready to stride on out of that place though, and on in to the best part of his life...the place where I am, waiting, recently impatiently, for him.

*He's a man who Understands that I am a woman who has seen some difficulties and that I'm often in transition that is beyond my control.

*He's a man who wouldn't automatically serve me with a cliche about how we always have control, because sometimes
life slaps you, and it takes some time to recover. He does not condescend to me and genuninely appreciates the potential consequences of doing so. I'm a "pistol" as I've been called repeatedly, and woman of Passion are *never* to be taken lightly. *Glimmer*

*He's a man with his own opinions and thoughts, likes and dislikes, and he's willing to explore those. He mostly does not care about the small stuff...where to eat is not worth a 30 minute conversation of "Where do you want to go?"
"Don't know. Doesn't matter to me."
"Well, comeon. You must have *some* idea."
"Nope. Doesn't matter to me."
I'll pick the place...no problem...but when it comes down to the important stuff (where to live), he has an opinion that he's willing to express.

*He's made the decision that he wants no more children, and has taken action to correct that. Yes, he's V-safe. I know this about him.

*He's a man, I get the strong feeling, who has been visited by Thanatos...looked him in the eyes but did not submit simply because it was not time.

*He's a man who understands that sometimes, my Own Soul Screams have to be quietened, and only by myself for I can not burden those whom I love with the torments. He understands this because it is how he operates, but who can learn that with Touch and the Silent Waiting, it can turn out Beautifully. He teaches me this too.

*He's a man who would never feel pity for me. To do so would show a high level of disrespect, and he thinks more of me than to implement this.

*He's a man of Dark Humor. He'll bring me strange and wicked little ideas to play with, and he will delight in the twists and turns that result.

*He's a man who understands the balance between Togetherness and Time Alone...to think, to dream, to be as a separate work of art, just waiting for the dypict to be created again.

*He's a man who both Adores and Tolerates me, and again, "reciprocity" is at the core of our relationship.

*He's a man who Understands Wonder, and Recognizes Greatness, even when I, perhaps, do not.

So why did I come here? Because I know that he is out There waiting someplace to find Home here within what only he and I can create.

I'm not sure where he is...but I'm going to keep looking, because "Sweet reciprocity" and "Full Sincerity" are still alive and well, at least here within my Being, and I Know that he hears that echo.

PrincessKarma 45F
6188 posts
6/12/2006 9:14 am

*lights a candle* May you Find whom you Seek, my dear... *glimmer*

The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma

rm_FreeLove999 47F
16127 posts
6/12/2006 10:29 am

i'm sure you will find him... the clearer you state your intention, the clearer you know your own mind on this matter, the clearer it will be when you see him!

[blog freelove999]

rm_cru1972 46M
4407 posts
6/12/2006 3:27 pm

*Glimmer* you shall find that which you seek, so shall it be

cuteNEway 42F

6/12/2006 6:35 pm

>sigh< honey he IS out there. And he is searching for you too...I promise!


24 posts
6/12/2006 7:50 pm

I Believe you will find him, and he's gonna add a lot of Spice to all of our lives!

4206 posts
6/12/2006 9:59 pm

I hope you find him...and then find me one too sweetie...love you bunches and many smooches...QueenB

Come on over...let's play in my Castle! The hide and seek is awesome!


campfirecozy 68M

6/13/2006 3:33 am

I am not sure that I have ever read such an eloquent description of desire. You find this person and the forces that pull two magnets together will pale in comparison.

RevJoseyWales 70M/67F
14393 posts
6/13/2006 8:47 am

Hail Boudica! Since I don't fit very much of the above, do you want me to go hunt him down for you? Joe

"McVeigh had the right idea, wrong address."

"This ain't Dodge City, and you ain't Bill Hickok."

Dowd3 44M

6/13/2006 9:14 am

Well, that ain't me. Hell of a shame.

But let me ask you. Your notion of him is quite specific. Is his notion of you as clear? You know what you want. What does he want? What does his Dream a Little Dream of Her sound like? Rest assured he is dreaming of you. For you have described a man searching the stars in an effort to find you. I'm not trying to sound sarcastic or even skeptical, I believe every word you wrote and I believe it is heartfelt down to the last letter. But what is his Dream a Little Dream of Her?

timberwolf6972 45M

6/13/2006 8:35 pm

Welcome back sweetie! I just got back myself from a little break that I took. I wish you luck in your search. Come see me sometime. {=}

angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
6/14/2006 7:47 am

I have never read anything quite like this! But how blessed the two of you will be when you find each other! ~hugs~

PrincessKarma 45F
6188 posts
6/14/2006 7:48 am

I coulda sworn you posted something else... *shrug*

Much love to you, my dear *glimmer*

The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma

meerkittykat 43F

6/14/2006 8:34 am

I am sooooooooooo simple!!! I honestly think that person exists for everyone. Someone told me once that my "expectations" of my mate were too specific and the standards to high....


People who know what they want often get it. Settle, and you will always regret it. I hope you find what you need.

Just wanted to thank you for coming to the SexyKitty Productions casting call, and let you know you're in Group Five for "[post 387539]." Check out the post, and good luck to you; may the biggest pervs win!!


RevJoseyWales 70M/67F
14393 posts
6/14/2006 5:01 pm

Actually I thought I was pretty fucking close. But that'll make it easier for me to find him for ya. He's there Dys, trust me. Joe

And Carol says she sees it. Not sure when but it WILL happen.

"McVeigh had the right idea, wrong address."

"This ain't Dodge City, and you ain't Bill Hickok."

8337 posts
6/14/2006 5:58 pm

Good luck in this endeavor.

I'm not sure this is the right medium, though.

You are more likely to meet such a man in everday life, by coincidence.


"My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur

RevJoseyWales 70M/67F
14393 posts
6/15/2006 2:59 pm

You never know. Just think of how long it took to for Carol and I to reconnect. Back to Old times. Our lifespan is but a blink in the conic theater.

Not bad off the cuff was it? Joe

"McVeigh had the right idea, wrong address."

"This ain't Dodge City, and you ain't Bill Hickok."

PrincessKarma 45F
6188 posts
6/15/2006 3:30 pm

    Quoting rm_Dysgyzed:
    Ah, indeed, there was something else here that I wrote when *very* intoxicated! When I read it, I realized that I had insulted myself, and with a lie, by saying I chose something other than an IQ. Well, now! What I meant was Spirit and Intelligence. I have no doubt of my intelligence! For what it's worth, I have an IQ very solidly in the "superior" range. It's why I pick the Best and Brightest for my World. *wink*

    So glad to have you in it!

    Now, with just a little luck or at least not complete Suckage, we'll be all set.

Oooooookaayyy, now it makes more sense *glimmer*

The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma

RevJoseyWales 70M/67F
14393 posts
6/15/2006 3:35 pm

Cosmic. Can't type for shit tonite. Joe

"McVeigh had the right idea, wrong address."

"This ain't Dodge City, and you ain't Bill Hickok."

RevJoseyWales 70M/67F
14393 posts
6/15/2006 3:44 pm

Shit Dys, I was just trollin'. I get that way sometimes. But ya gotta trust me, he's coming. Seriously, one of these days we'll have to talk about this, I've got some interesting theories. When it was a different world. Pique your interest? Joe

"McVeigh had the right idea, wrong address."

"This ain't Dodge City, and you ain't Bill Hickok."

rm_sharksnsails 47M
738 posts
6/15/2006 7:14 pm

ur post reminded me of this song.....

"I Still Haven't Found What I'm Looking For"

I have climbed highest mountain
I have run through the fields
Only to be with you
Only to be with you

I have run
I have crawled
I have scaled these city walls
These city walls
Only to be with you

But I still haven't found what I'm looking for
But I still haven't found what I'm looking for

I have kissed honey lips
Felt the healing in her fingertips
It burned like fire
This burning desire

I have spoke with the tongue of angels
I have held the hand of a devil
It was warm in the night
I was cold as a stone

But I still haven't found what I'm looking for
But I still haven't found what I'm looking for

I believe in the kingdom come
Then all the colors will bleed into one
Bleed into one
Well yes I'm still running

You broke the bonds and you
Loosed the chains
Carried the cross
Of my shame
Of my shame
You know I believed it

But I still haven't found what I'm looking for

SleekIcilyVarix 42M

6/17/2006 8:22 am

Hope you find him sooner than later That you really know what you want and won't settle for less is admirable.

2943 posts
6/17/2006 8:49 pm

I believe it's all in the timing my dear...for when it happens and it comes to the day of discovering each other physically, at last,
it will be bigger and brighter than you have even imagined...
like 2 found souls soaring through the clouds filled with *glimmer*
How could it not be with a beauty like you?



keithcancook 61M
17930 posts
6/18/2006 11:45 pm

Are you quite certain that this is the type of man you desire? I mean, have you given this more than just a little thought?

We certainly wouldn't want you to settle on just any ol man that comes along!

Blog On!

Glimmer_Man06 48M
3308 posts
6/18/2006 11:48 pm

SisterBear, come out come out wherever you are!

They say a woman ages like fine wine...

...mine ages like milk!

rm_gwalker_oh 56M
54 posts
7/3/2006 10:27 am

Hi Glimmer my handle is probably new to you -- you don't "know" me. But I spent a lot of time yesterday in your blog space.

Since I'm a stranger my comment (I'll get to it presently) may seem presumptuous. But I'm sure I read somewhere yesterday (can't find the citation now though) that you "tell it like it is", or maybe (?) that you like others to do so! Probably both!

The comment is this. You might think a little more on what Dowd3 had to say in his response on 6/13. OK, very likely you did, and it's just not reflected in your response back to him.

But my response to Dowd's is similar: what is "He" looking for in you?

Unlike Dowd, who prefaced with, "well, that ain't me. Hell of a shame", well, that *is* me! I'm serious (ok I can see the eyes rolling now, but hear me out, please). Really, as I read that description, it was really a rush. I hesitiate to try to describe further because it SO resonated with me --- ok, seriously, it was some sort of mild mystical experience. Sheesh fow fuckin' flaky does that sound! But I mean it; I don't ask you to believe me but there it is.

I am NOT saying that I'm actually a guy you want to meet. I'm sure you'll find that out soon enough, so please spare me all the warnings of your profile. I'm NOT trying to make some come-on here.

YES I spent a lot of time! I agree with your outrage about the way you lost your job, I understand your insistence there and many other places that you *hate* sympathy. Whatever you posted while drunk and later clarified "what I really meant was Spirit and Intelligence", that's it! -- you're right on the pinnacle with that! Damn bitch that you paint yourself as on your profile, I get you're just doing some heavy filtering, for in your blogs I see plenty of graciousness and gratitude --- clearly a rich network of friends --- there's lots more I don't remember in detail right now but yeah! I read it. YES, I am "a man who Understands Wonder, and Recognizes Greatness, even when [others], perhaps, do not"! And I hope and trust that the same is true of you.

Good luck with finding this guy, and my you have what he's looking for when you do!!!

With all sincerity, -G.W.

rm_gwalker_oh 56M
54 posts
7/5/2006 7:44 pm


I'll post more later, now that I know I'm CRAZY about you, AND now that you understand why I hate you!

Oh, Lady! how right you are: welcome to the "Journey of Interest"! Passion comes in many forms. Perhaps when one is suppressed, others become more intense. The blindness of a blind man makes his music great.

Acknowledging the courtesy of your parting salutation,

rm_gwalker_oh 56M
54 posts
6/14/2007 3:38 pm

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