Things that make ya go hmmmmmmmmmmm  

rm_Durttydiana 52F
33 posts
3/22/2005 4:07 am

Last Read:
7/10/2007 1:28 pm

Things that make ya go hmmmmmmmmmmm

March 22nd, 2005

Ive been on this site for quite some time. My profile has been viewed over 46,000 times. You'd think outta those 46,000 I wouldve found somebody by now. hmmmmmm.

( As of December 5th, 2005 my profile has been viewed over 71,000 times. )

Am I too pickey? Maybe, but If and when I do meet someone, it usually goes great, or so I thought, then again what do I know? Hmmmmmm. I will get hounded and finally say, "yes, I will see you." Then we go out, Have fun, and for those I feel are worthy, we do the nasty. We go our seperate ways parting with the usual exit lines. Thanks, had a great time,
Then the wondering begins. Sure you all say you will call me, but i've yet to receive the call. I know you enjoyed yourself so what is it? Hmmmmmm. Am I too fat, too ugly, not what you expected? Hey I am what I am. Nothing else. Nor do I pretend to be something im not. So if anyone can enlighten a dark heart and explain why, I would greatly appreciate it. Cause I am confused over here. Someone? Anyone? Hmmmmmm?

1 post
3/22/2005 6:45 am

Quiero verte, AdultFriendFinder
Enviame unas palabras de amor y sexo tuyas y unas fotitos, pero por favor que sea en castellano

rm_EroticOhio 60M/55F
20 posts
3/22/2005 6:26 pm

This is a good question. My wife has some trouble with guys who are all excited to meet in person and make plans to meet, but then never show up, don't call to say they're not showing up, don't call to explain why they didn't show up...crazy people, and rude. But overall we've had good luck meeting people, and many have become our friends. Of course our goals are a bit different that most. We are building an erotic network of friends in our area, so even if we don't become fuck-buddies with everyone we meet, we do often become friends, and they meet our other friends, etc. Too bad you are so far away. I'm sure you would be very popular in our circle of friends


DoserAortaPatio 38M
4 posts
3/23/2005 3:34 am

Do you like to take it in the ass?
Where are you located?
Man I could fuck a nice MILF like yourself but then again who says you have kids!

1 post
3/25/2005 7:58 pm

maybe you should lift your race ban. just a suggestion.

DeepsFirmsBurgs 60M
73 posts
3/26/2005 1:00 pm

I think you're well worth a call.

1 post
4/1/2005 3:47 am

Most of the people on here r not looking 4 repeat visits this is like one big candy store and 4 men they want 2 sample every thig but there still people that might love your candy and won't 2 eat it over and over so play safe and smart u find him or her


4/22/2005 10:51 pm

Maybe you just haven't found the right one yet! Life is funny in that respect! I have been looking for 6 years and haven't found that person either... I have heard it said that when you stop looking, that is when Love finds you... I think that's a "Load", but what do I know... Ozzy

rm_sbsufo 53M

4/24/2005 9:15 pm

hi gorgeous, you are at least an 11! Maybe you give it up to easily when you meet the men that you think are right for you. You are a beautiful woman, make them work for it. Get to know them over a couple of dates, if they are worthy they will not mind waiting. Anticipation can be as thrilling as the final act!

CyberSearcher 60M
11 posts
5/18/2005 3:50 am

The ones that hound you? Don't respond, block their addresses. If your gut feeling is, you are not interested in these lotharios, follow it. You are the best judge of who is right for you.

Also, you get so many hits, because of your photograph or the fact you post one. I imagine most AdultFriendFinder subscribers gravitate towards members with photographs on their profiles. It is how I found you. Then the photograph you post is beauty personified. Face it, you are drop-dead gorgeous! Nothing wrong with that or any of your photographs, but if you did not post a photograph, how many hits do you think you would get? Probably have a drastic decrease. However, the hits you do get, will be from those who took the time to read your profile and are interested in you not the fantasy they imagine from your photographs. Give it a try. You will only get fewer hits and perhaps the quality you seek. Good luck!

PhotoMan4Fun 59M
2 posts
5/27/2005 10:26 am

Hi Diana,
The very nature of this site runs counter to establishing a lasting relationship. For both men and women there is simply too much availability in this place to tempt one from settling down. I have never dated or met anyone off this site for that exact reason. While it may be hard to believe here on AdultFriendFinder I am not interested in the concept of musical beds. I may meet some friends here but I am here for the entertainment value, not to meet multiple partners. Friends are great though and who knows, perhaps we will meet someday.
All the best to you,

1 post
5/27/2005 11:45 am


sexplayderon is on the right page. Your looks are average, your 39 and 170 lbs. This puts you in a catagory that most men will want to just sleep with you (have fun and enjoy). What I am concerned with is that you have not had any repeat visitors. Do you think that you are good in bed? Do you enjoy sucking cock? I would be willing to sleep with you and give you a honest review

1 post
6/24/2005 11:59 pm

Looking for love in the wrong guys {prety boys} need to find a man thats talks stright and means it. Try trusting some one different the same thing all the time,you'll get the same result......try some thing diffeent,...try me.

rm_robo13 61M
18 posts
6/26/2005 11:20 pm

well love you have been in my network now for over a year and have yet to anwser my emails and all so hum if we did go out and all I would hope that it would be for more than just the nasty which is nice makes a nice endoing of course to a great day but hey if no one is calling you back there loss rite I for one would and to be up front about it now it might be awhile I am after all a long distance trucker now and am gone for weeks at a time but when I get home out i would rock your body for hours LOL so hum you gonna email me now or must i blog you again in another 3 months LOL Robo

2 posts
6/29/2005 4:00 am

Tough Question if I knew the guys you went out with or could see them interact with you body language ecetera However thats not possible so I'd say there Just FUCKIN BLINd first and foremost and secondly Stupid! Jesus are you serioous . Don't these guys know I certainly do that girls like yourself are not a dime a dozen . I know having lived in Europe most of my childhood due to my Father being in the Air Force for 20 yrs that California people are so clicky and materialistic jerks oh she don't have this or he doesn't have that statis sysbol and ooverall just so inconsiderate of other peoples feelings ya know. Well she gave it up NEXT! Sorry pal tell me ya found another one right away WRONG Anyway Thats my opinion c-ya tom nice pics Local guy in Riverside County Ciao

2 posts
6/29/2005 1:26 pm

Hey DURTTY! HA HA! Check this out! You'd like to find out why no repeaters. Or Why not even the Phone call the next day! LIke I Had a good time ! . He should at least give you the female the courtesy of a phone call to let you know yes or no if they think they would want to date you again! unless the date was such a flop that this would only add insult to injury! However this is my test that i apply right from the moment I pick you up . I see if your place is clean , kids ecetera if your living with roomates or family how you treat them. okay Off to the car right. i go to your side of the car and open your door its wide open so you don't have to wait for me to get out the key! Besides this is the time to show your lady friend how quick you are and she would probally like watching your ass as you scurry ahead of her to open the door! . okay then you take her hand my muscle car you have to step down into and with a dress that can be awckward! So He should know all this stuff ya see and if its one of these Virgin Four Wheel Drives That is like the Size of a monster truckHe had better be on your side to grab a handfull of leg or ass and shove you up in the truck Hell he knows your wearin nylons and if not and shes bare llegged ya better make damn sure she doesn't scrape her shin and ruin her freshly shaved leg and cut herself! My day taought me well and I'm tellin ya if the guy don't have theses basic skills .! Drop him what do you have to lose Shit your not even outta the driveway YET . So tell him your not interested don't tell hime why either te4lkl hime to figure it out!. Okay back to the subject put you in the car and now I close the door lock it behind you very important Ladies you are precious cargo ya know if he does't look the door then he doesn't care , unless its one of those new cars with pwer door locks! No Not even then cuz they still have the Button on the door so he can just locklk your side! And DEN AND DEN oh yeah! so i got you all secured and in my Chevelle i'm struttin around the car and You Womebn HAD better reach over and unlock that damn DRIVERSIDE DOOR or guess What? i don't even get in I dont even break a stride i keep walkin around the car and open your door and squat down with my knees bent and hold out my hand and tell you This isn't gonna work out! . I'm sorry i don't know what i was thinkin! I mean your cute and all i jsy cant get over the Fact That YOUR A Spoiled selfish little BRAT Good evening lassie C-YA!! and i drive off I swear to God I do that! And so should you women it simple did not cost ya nothin! your at home and dressed up and now you can go out with your buddies and tell them what happenned and get drunk opr something ! What do ya think too harsh . I don't think so ! Well let me know What ya think there DURTTY CUZ YA know what Ya sure ARE PURRTTTY! C-ya Zippp------->>>>

rm_Durttydiana 52F
1 post
6/30/2005 4:22 am

okay its been like 3 months since my last blog so i thought id give u an update. My profile hits are now past 56,000. I have met a few more of my fellow AdultFriendFinder-ers. All were exciting encounters. Some I get super attached to and some..... well I just dont. either way I have met and made a new friend. There is a large selection to choose from on this site. overwhelmng sometimes. Ive become more so selective in my choices than b 4. I cant say that the spontineity is worn off or outta me as of yet b cuz id be lying. Cant have that.
im going to bed now if you will all excuse me. kisses and hugs

rm_6ft3andaqter 62M
1 post
6/30/2005 8:03 pm

Durttydiana, 6ft3andaqter here believe me I'd call ya. No doubt, right away and repeatably. Now was that too vague? Your absolutly gorgeous.


7/12/2005 2:00 am

You crack me up D. I guess we all are picky at times, you know me to be about some things already. Well, for the women on this site that would be normal for us guys at least the good guys out here are always faced with exactly what you said "My profile has been viewed over 46,000 times. You'd think outta those 46,000 I wouldve found somebody by now" with hits like that it wouldnt make much sense for some of us good guys to think there was even a chance to click with a possible good woman. On the other hand how would we know just as you. So, do we both take a chance and see what develops or test faite and go different directions and never find out. Also, if someone is hit that much how honest does that person become or is the ego so huge from such a response that they pick themselves nothing but where they began here from day one. COUNTER 0 VISITORS. - talk to you if you so feel #46,001 is worth even just hanging out with though the smoking is there. Hey its never to late to quit. Zmazing people can do amazing things you know.... xxo (how's that for a little philosophey

1 post
7/13/2005 10:55 am

sweety your hot infact, hot to try in I'm in costa mesa where do you stay?


7/13/2005 5:42 pm

Come on Dianna!..You cant be serious. Girl, try and remember one small fact: Most dudes will say anything necessary no matter what it is, in order to tap dat azz! Whats so hard to understand about that? After that, and depending on how that session went, how it looked, if it was trimmed right, smelling good, etc..thats when the male will decide if its worth another meeting. Usually, but in not all cases, One time will be enough and all things said prior to the bang session are history!! Even if they happen to tell you that they really have feelings for you or even love you!..Pretty pothetic..especially the love one..yuck!
As far as you questioning your own looks and asking if you are ugly or fat, remember one thing and this is the clincher: ON THIS SITE MOST MEN WILL FUCK ANYTHING! That means look around at some of the ones that actually had the balls to post a picture of themselves..Yes they are asking the same questions you are my dear..Sad isn't it?..haha!! LET THE GAMES BEGIN!!

ApeakAuditUzbek 51M

7/25/2005 6:07 pm


rubrightway562 60M

7/29/2005 5:32 pm

i dont get the people that say they want to meet someone for a good time or for just sex and when you email them they never respond to your email.i love to give sexual massages and no one (i take that back person emailed me back)email me back and says they want one....daniel...people i am for real you will love my massages ...

rm_F_M11 69M
8 posts
8/8/2005 10:41 pm

Diana: I tend to be sympathetic to you. I'm sure it must be difficult being out going and having people just pass you by after a meeting. I don't see you as fat not do I thing you uinattractive. As a matter of fact I see you as trim and nice looking. I read one guy's response that said "most guys on this site will fuck anything". Well....I'm one of those guys that won't "fuck anything". I like a passionate woman who's not inhibited but I like her to be mine, I don't want to share her with anybody. If you think we've got sdomething to talk about, drop me a line.

Steelcowboy118 40M

9/7/2005 11:00 am

heheheh. . . D. . . I've seen the guys you drag home. All bums. You seemed cool, if not a bit sketchy, flakey, sure, but cool enough. the problem is your playmates. You like to smoke and do other activities, so don't these other guys. Not preaching, but tweakers aren't reliable. If you date a tweaker you're going to find out he has the attention span of a 12 year old. Look for a reliable guy. There was a time when I was one. Not now, though. hehehe. . . I work three jobs, (got a house to pay for now, stupid southern Cali property values), plus I actually like my jobs. Guess that makes me a work-a-holic. Anywho, don't sell yourself short. . . you seemed cool when. . . well I guess we roomed together. . . that was a lifetime ago, then. . . plus you got nice yabbos.

Badhombre6969 61M

12/4/2005 3:34 pm

Your a marvelous woman.. those lucky enough to taste you are fortunate indeed, however, be thankful they don't come back because the man who will be truly blessed will want to come back for more and more. Just be happy your deleting the losers.


12/14/2005 8:08 pm

Just a sugestion D, add this sentence to your profile and see how you decrease the amount of loosers (the men will hate me for that)

rm_ygcdown90041 36M

12/31/2005 2:56 am



2/27/2006 9:27 pm

You ever think that when you talk to someone over the internet that you arent really being yourself, and your pics may not be up to date either, or maybe the person you are talking to isnt being themselves, or maybe there wasnt any magic there, maybe that person set high expetations of the whole thing, and let themselves down . I mean after all this is what we leave open for dissapointment when we have expectations, so in one way you shouldnt even expect them to call, hell I wouldn't expect them to even show up. True I would hope for the best , but expect nothing. And at the same time I would just "chok" it up as a good time , and let it be, true there are lots of people in the world that catch our eye , this is why we date right, but then when we get to know them we find that either "A" we really enjoy sharing energy with this person, or "B" it wasnt all that pleasant and Id rather not do it again . and last but not least , don't forget the players , the guys who just want the pussy , and care about nothing else, theres a million reasons but the best thing I could say is "you leave yourself open for dissapoinment when you set expectations of others " ...PeAcE !!

Become a member to create a blog