not looking to get fucked.  

rm_DrumminMonky 31F
18 posts
4/23/2006 4:00 pm

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3/1/2007 11:50 am

not looking to get fucked.

i never realized what a community this was.

haha. i honestly just found this site one night and signed up to look around. i forgot about until i checked one of my old emails and saw like dozens of messages. since then ive been keeping up with my messages.

what i like about this community is the insight that people provide. as well as the honesty that exists here. people are themselves and that is absolutely beautiful to me.

one thing i dont like about this site though is the way that the profiles are protrayed. i was actually talking about this with someone i met off of AdultFriendFinder last night. i was telling him how i dont like that when you look at my profile you see what i like about sex. thats not cool. i know i havent finished filling the additional questions out but i have a lot more to say than "i like receiving oral sex." i love art, movies, music, and just life in general. im not just some sex fiend.

i dont really know what i signed up here but one this is for sure, im not looking to just get fucked, thank you very much.

meerkittykat 43F

4/23/2006 4:16 pm

The cool thing about this place is that you can ignore the people who can't read between the lines in your profile and just want you for sex (which you don't want). I quit coming here for sex; just here now to blog and keep up with friends; and I still get propositions. They just get chucked, and I continue on merrily

chasingfun27 39M
1108 posts
4/23/2006 4:22 pm

Good on you for your honesty there. You must remember though that it's mainly guys trawling through this site, and if guys are good at one thing, it's blocking out out the unimportant details(such as anything other than issues regarding sex). You are right- the profiles are definitely sexually orientated so you will continue to receive emails from men just "looking for a fuck", you'll just have to sort your way through them if you're looking to actually meet someone.
Good luck with whatever path you choose.

FemFreak4Fun 33F

4/23/2006 5:16 pm

I totally feel you on this. My main purpose at first was to find someone for good sex sometimes and of course a long-lasting friendship. I did finally meet a cool guy, and now I'm not looking to meet anyone else. I mainly sign on now to blog and talk to a few friends, but sexual invites always get tossed.

imLadyBambi 59M/51F

4/23/2006 5:41 pm

Maybe it's for companionship.

Lady Bambi


5/16/2006 10:51 pm

What some of the blogger girls that I know have done who have been absolutely bombarded with "let's fuck" type emails is to simply to turn off their profile. They then pretty much use the blogs exclusively to meet guys. They also say that what this does in effect is to act as a filter to "screen out the illiterate". And from what they've all said there is a decent population of men fitting that description here.

Good luck and I hope you do stick around and keep blogging


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