Dolores, why are you on AFF?  

rm_DoloresH 33F
47 posts
9/7/2005 9:48 am

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Dolores, why are you on AFF?

Many emails ask me this question. My first impulse is to say "Why, not?" But, I have always hated that phrase. LOL. Or maybe I should ask "Why are YOU on AdultFriendFinder?"

I don't date people I work with. I may be only 21 years old but, I learned that lesson from many other people. Sure, it may work for some but, for most, it just doesn't.

I don't date people at school. Without getting into specifics, they are not my age or situation.

Well-meaning family and friends have tried to set me up on blind dates with their brother's wife's cousin's neighbor, etc. For some reason, those are always the "grabby guys."

I'm not a drinker, at all. No specific reason, just my preference. My first few weeks as a 21 year old was spent going with friends & family to bars and clubs. Those places aren't much fun if you don't drink. Plus, they are usually TOO LOUD!!!

On AdultFriendFinder, I can read a guy's profile or talk to him in the chatroom or read his blog and get an idea of his personality. This helps to weed out the trolls and players (playas) and un-balanced ones. Sure, they may say "I haven't had a chance to fully update my profile." That may be true and I might be over-weeding so to speak but, I like to err on the side of caution.

Or maybe the reason is that I was on AdultFriendFinder's affiliated site "BigChurch" and clicked on the wrong link. LOL

rm_jadefullys 37M
7 posts
9/7/2005 10:27 am

I understand where you are coming from... I grew up where I live my life- Seems I either know everyone or they are just simply not for me. I actually frequent a few dating sites, still not much luck. I just might have to move to meet the one for me.

firstcontactnow 40M
51 posts
9/7/2005 12:00 pm

Your blog comments on profiles and pictures made me rethink my profile description and I re-worked it based on a more detailed one I had on another site.

Thanks for making me rethink,

- fc21

damian69x3 48M
1 post
10/3/2005 1:12 pm

i agree with th bar scene. i really don't understand how people hook up at some of these places. but for us men is easier since we are all attracted to looks. anyway, for a 21 year old hottie (sorry, im a guy) you have a lot of common sense. amazing!

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