Too Picky???  

rm_DagorPoker 36M
39 posts
9/9/2006 11:19 pm

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10/10/2007 9:46 pm

Too Picky???

I know that I've posted before about my lack of sex and it does bother me, but I guess that I'm wired differently than most guys.

I had a sure thing tonight. This girl was chomping at the bit to get me in bed. I mean, make no mistake, this was a done deal. But the only thing that made her attractive was that she was willing. Personality was ok, but her lifestyle and past just turned me off. She has 2 kids, by 2 different guys, she's looking for sex and wasn't thinking safely. That's not a bucket of worms that I want to open.

I was desperate enough to banter with her, but really I'm glad my rational mind took over. Yes... I'm looking for a sexual person, but not someone that's risking themselves and me to get a lay.

And I know that there isn't even a slim chance of a relationship between us because she's not my type. She was just willing. Part of me is kicking myself and another part of me is patting myself on the back. Sometimes I hate having morals.

I really wonder if I'm being overly selective or if I'm really following a sound agenda. Sometimes sex isn't worth the trouble, I guess.

silverhawk762 52M/49F

9/9/2006 11:49 pm

Hmmmm... I don't think it's a matter of it being not worth the trouble. There are some places that you just don't want to go, to put it politely!!! Stick to your standards on this one, and trust your intuition. If it's meant to happen, make no mistake - it will happen sooner or later. Just be sure that you do a gut check (as you did tonight) before you do a ... ahem... little head check. Sleep well... {=}

givit2me999 55F

9/6/2007 12:15 pm

Sounds like you're growing up babe.....good for you! Having sex with someone just because you can versus having sex with someone you're attracted to on a number of different levels is where the satisfaction level enters into the equation.

rm_DagorPoker 36M
27 posts
9/25/2007 8:51 pm

I think so too. I went through that phase where I would screw anything that passed my way and I went many a night of having sex with not an orgasm in sight because it "just wasn't doing it for me." I hate to say it but I am picky. I meet very few women that truly pique my interest.

Though I'm always hoping for that surprise!

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