To player or not to player  

rm_CustumBill 61M
27 posts
2/21/2005 10:11 am

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To player or not to player

I remember once upon a time when I got my first date on AdultFriendFinder. We meet for drinks, so I went to pick her up and before I could even say how great she looked she said, " there will be no sex." LOL, nice opener don't you think? Well, that's ok I thought to myself. So we had lunch, a few drinks, and I took her home. I walked her to the door, said good-by and spun on my heals to leave. "Hey wait" she said, "you didn't even try to kiss me what's up with that?" "Well let's see, before I even said hi you tell me there will be no sex. You then do all the talking over lunch and all you talk about is sex. Your kind of boring." LOL, you should have seen the stunned look on her face. I looked at her for a second and went to leave, "Wait" she then grab my arm spun me and planted one on my lips. I am sure you know the rest. Later I confessed and told her I think I played her. She just smiled and said I know. I knew from the first kiss, then she told me that she was playing me too. I smiled and said I thought as much. Funny thing was her profile said NO PLAYERS.

So my question is;

Is what happened make me a player, or was I simply doing that with I feel was done to me? Then if, so why do we almost all say no players wanted when we almost always play the game anyway?


kiwibloke2005 64M

2/21/2005 10:56 am

While you got a fuck from that one, there are a lot of cock-teasers here who think it is fun winding guys up!!! Frankly, cant be bothered with the crap & mind-games. I cut & run, there are plenty of women who just want a good fuck, no strings attached...just a matter of sorting the chaff from the wheat.

rm_WickedFemale 64F
401 posts
2/21/2005 1:17 pm

Good point there....

papyrina 52F
21133 posts
2/22/2005 12:40 pm

i always meet a guy for coffee first,chatting and changing pics is ok but you still don't know if theres chemistry till you meet,so coffee and a beer give both the chance to run if need be,

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