Older is Always better, isn't it?  

rm_CustumBill 61M
27 posts
2/20/2005 8:36 am

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Older is Always better, isn't it?

During my years on AdultFriendFinder I have been told more times than I care to remember that I am to old, even by older women. LOL can you imagine that. BUT,if you think about it, a man with years of wisdom behind him (and still to learn) one would think this is a good thing. Hell I've done so many things that my purity score is 9. Slow, fast, hard, soft, B&D, Bi, lust, love, turmoil, calm, etc. one could go nuts just thinking about all one has done in a life time. What I do know is that you must get up everyday, (except if the woman you are with has that twinkle in her eye. In that case you know you did it right and she is looking for a repeat to see if was a fluke. LO and live it as if it was your last.

My question to you is;

Because you are older does that mean you cannot be even better than those youngsters?


rm_WickedFemale 64F
401 posts
2/20/2005 11:14 am

With age comes experience. Being older does not mean one is better than or less than one that is younger. BUT we do know what we enjoy.

rm_Do_U_Exist 59M/56F
3 posts
2/20/2005 11:52 am

But some of us find the idea of someone young and inexperienced more exciting. The thrill of showing them how good sex can be is something very special. And, if a mature woman has a husband who understands and is also turned on by her horny desires for a youngster, then she gets the best of both worlds

LoyaltyandHonor 37M/32F
1241 posts
2/20/2005 1:12 pm

Sexual experience means nothing without knowledge to back it up. Every woman is different and by knowing sex and female anatomy in general it can drastically help your abilities of sex with one or numerous partners.

The only reason most older men are better in bed is because they have been in relationships far longer then most younger people. By being in relationships you learn more about intimacy and thus gain more wisdom to bring to new relationships.

It is a catch 22. The only reason older men are sometimes better is just because of the wisdom, a open minded younger person has some very high potential as well.

Luv2joinU4MFM 59M
17 posts
2/20/2005 1:16 pm

I would like to think that us older guys have a pretty good idea of how to please a woman in bed.

Trouble is that some of them want different things ‒ and maybe having a younger guy makes them somehow feel younger too ‒ which I'm sure they don't regard as negative. Live and let live I suppose.

I'm hoping to find a mature couple to join for MFM fun and believe there must be people out there who are seeking the same thing??? Just not found them yet...

itcudbegudMFM 59M/57F

2/20/2005 1:43 pm

Quote Bill,

"My question to you is;

Because you are older does that mean you cannot be even better than those youngsters?"

Age is not necessarily the critical factor. Attitude is more important. A perceptive, willing youngster may soon be more capable than a self-centered, unaware older man. Conversely, a sensitive and caring older man may be fantastic wheras an impatient, unobservant young man who is in a hurry may think he's great but be totally useless for a woman.

You have to take the time to suss out people of all ages.

rm_humdinger61 58M
6 posts
2/20/2005 7:45 pm

I think women are missing a good bet by ignoring those of us with age and experience -- not to mention a complete vocabulary that may not include "like" and "dude" every other word. If they think we can't perform or keep up, they are dead wrong. Maybe my "advanced" age of 45 is why I'm having so much trouble finding willing partners. Sigh...

rm_CustumBill 61M
10 posts
2/21/2005 8:49 am

Well, Not bad for my first time up at bat. I would have never thought that blogs could be so much fun. Seems I was right, one can still learn something even in my "advanced" age of 47. LOL.
Hum, I did say I was doing this to explore the mind body and sole. I want to thank those of you who did comment, and from time to time I may explore others comments. For example;

Because you are older does that not mean you cannot be even better than those youngsters?

Good question, yes it does mean I can be even better. However, I can also be a complete idiot as well. One time I thought so highly of myself that when we were done she asked me "why do you hate women so much." Well, I don't have to tell you how stunned I was to hear that. I never made that mistake again. Witch brings me to the comment of "Maybe my advanced age of 45 is why I'm having so much trouble finding willing partners." I pose the question; Do you go looking for a partner thinking somewhere deep in the back of your mind that she thinks you might not be able to keep up? Or better put could your "advanced" age be holding you back? One time I thought I was gods gift to women and that I could get any woman to cum for hours. Only to find out that she felt sorry for me, and gave me a toss because I was trying so "dam hard" to get in her pants.

In closing I don't want anyone to think that I am attacking them but only pondering the comments presented here.


Luv2joinU4MFM 59M
17 posts
4/23/2006 7:57 am

How about best of both worlds?

MFM with:

‒ an experienced male with reasonable stamina and knowledge/ability to give a woman pleasure.

‒ a virile young stud to pound her vigorously

To be served alternately and repeatedly or even together!

Too hot for most?

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