Got my first hate mail, LOL  

rm_CustumBill 61M
27 posts
2/22/2005 9:33 am

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Got my first hate mail, LOL

Well, I guess it would happen someday, I got my first piece of hate mail today. It came from a person that had no picture on her profile as well as a limited amount of info. I suppose she has her right to do that but nasty, wow. She called me a scumbag, a cheating whore, low-life no good for nothing, etc. In my profile I say that I am married, and so over sexed I could lose my mind. (Or something like that.) When I met my wife she was quite hot to trot, good looker. Not bad for being 10 yr. older that me. She has gone through menopause, and has had a big drop in hormones. The doctor said she would be at risk of cancer if she takes replacements. So what to do? As of right now she doesn't take them take good care of my wife, I give what ever she needs or wants. Including sex (ranges around every 10-14 days. What's a guy to do? Well let's explore this for a moment. Theirs always porn, video, DVD, etc. Then there are the web cams here on AdultFriendFinder, they can be fun. The list goes on. Keep in mind this does not replace a warm body, or the rapture one gets when making love to a real living body.

So here's the question for today;

If you are married, over sexed, and your wife doesn't even think about sex the way she use, let a lone at all most of the time and you are still in love with her, what do you do?

Now to make this interesting, the women out there who have the same problem (sort of) please chime in as well.


LoyaltyandHonor 37M/32F
1241 posts
2/22/2005 10:44 am

Sounds like the person needs to counseling.

rm_luna269 57F

2/22/2005 12:21 pm

Sounds like maybe that woman needs to get off this site. Everyone has a right to their own opinion but most should keep it to themselves unless asked! And since you asked!! Life can be tough when one partner has a higher sex drive then the other,in my case, me. I love my husband with all my heart and don't ever want to leave him. But sometimes the weeks or months without sex can stress me out and put undo stress on our relationship. We talked it out and with his blessing I can do whatever I want. Being honest is always best. Some people don't have that understanding of a spouse! But some how it doesn't feel right to have another man in my... life.....guess I'm lucky I'm BI!

papyrina 52F
21133 posts
2/22/2005 12:37 pm

i don't desire my husband but i love him and would never really want to leave him,so having AdultFriendFinder for chat and an occasional date keeps me sane,is some want to judge me then so be it,

I'm a

i'm here to stay

rm_WickedFemale 64F
401 posts
3/3/2005 6:13 pm

If this is an open agreement with your wife to see someone else, that puts things in another light for single ladies. After all, we are women. I see married men that have that agreement and it is very workable for all of us. I am not taking her husband, no threat to their relationship and avoid a nasty confrontation if caught, but she loves him enough to have someone else give him what is feels she can not. Underwise, cheating is cheating.....

rm_greedycat2 65F
46 posts
3/8/2005 11:57 am

im 11 yrs older than my partner but im the one that needs more was destroying a good relationship till AdultFriendFinder...i met a really good friend my partner approves of...our life together is now stable and happy again plus my friend is also happy and no longer lonely and lies...just 3 happy people

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