A Big Slut.  

rm_CurvynCuddly 30F
51 posts
9/9/2006 9:04 pm

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A Big Slut.


Apparently I am one.

Which is funny because it was more an issue with my age than my actual activities. If I were twenty years older and a business woman in a powersuit I would be a go-getter who knows what she wants and gets it when she wants it. I would be someone other women could look up to.

But I'm not.

Nope. I'm eighteen years old. So it doesn't matter how much life experience I actually have or how intelligent or how mature I am, I'm a big slut.

Even worse! I prefer older men, how shocking is that? That I like men who know what they're doing, who can hold a conversation, who know ones private life is supposed to be just that, private. Obviously I'm flat out unreasonable..

Gods save me from hypocritical narrowminded people.. Particularly those who claim to have such strong values and yet here they are, on a sex and swingers site.

BlueEyedSoul65 53M
1027 posts
9/9/2006 9:52 pm

Welcome to adulthood. You're exactly right and don't think it gets any better. You may not get used to it, but at least you'll learn who to avoid.
Older men eh? I knew you looked like a smart young lady!


Khrysomallos 48F

9/10/2006 3:57 am

Well, welcome to the club, fellow slut. (Though I am the "almost" 20-year older, professional woman in the power suit -- so I can get away with practically anything.)

Just be careful, protect your health and safety. Don't do anything you might "regret" later.

{=}KMA


rm_1Fr8Guy 53M

9/10/2006 9:57 am

I dont agree with the slut thing. I wish I had some of the fun/experience you have. I spent my youth making sure my friends were OK. (the sober one in the party). I would like to become a 'slut' but now I dont believe I have what it takes. Too many years of 'be careful and use your head' conditioning.

Dont you dare be hard on yourself. You know jealousy and envy when you see it. I think you are the most fantastic person on this whole damn site. Then again, I havent met most of the people on this site.


Yukongold1000 52M
7 posts
9/10/2006 4:18 pm

Did someone find your ad on AdultFriendFinder and then decide that they were somehow morally superior? If that's the case, HELLO? They were on AdultFriendFinder too. Of course this is coming from the big chicken who won't post his face. Like one of the other respondents to your blog, I too did not go out and experience as much as I should have. And it is a BIG regret of mine. I think that my concern for others still came through we we first met and I made sure in my own mind that you had all your marbles in one bag.

Some advice from someone who has seen a bit of life:
1) In a couple of years the list of people that you know will change radically, and the narrow minded ones will make up a very small percentage of the people that you call true friends.

2) You DO have all your marbles, and you know where they are. Trust me, BIG PLUS.

3) I'm assuming that this negative stuff is coming from people back home. You're not at home right now. Screw 'em, figuratively, not literally.

4) I'm still around if you want to bounce things off me.

Take care of yourself, and try not to sweat the small stuff, and by the way, most of the negative things in life is actually small stuff.

D.


rm_CurvynCuddly 30F
36 posts
9/10/2006 6:32 pm

Mrr, no worries loves, I'm still pleased with myself, was more frustrated at the time. Some e-mails were exchanged, I try to make a point of keeping my head and not degenerating into baseless name calling but man.. Sometimes I'd just like to hit people. With a stick or something. Or do terrible, terrible things to them with aforementioned stick. Terrible, terrible unlubricated things


rm_James20910 54M
316 posts
9/10/2006 9:05 pm

I really don't know what a slut is?

I'm one of those people that says, if it feels good, and nobody is harmed, go do it.

My 'ole man used to say, "There are few things that can't be washed clean by a nice hot shower and a bar of soap."

I would add my Father's Mother's quote, "Only the last one counts."


rm_ouraltereggo 45M/44F

9/12/2006 1:51 pm

Sweetie, I was the slut at 18 too. And now I'm 32 and I'm still a slut, that is, if slut means I go after my own pleasure and know what I want and how to get it. You keep doing it. Everyone else may think whatever they want to, but at the end of the day, if you are happy with what you got that day, that week, that month, that year, that life, then you are doing what is right for you.


aMasterPlumber 64M

9/13/2006 12:20 pm

    Quoting rm_CurvynCuddly:
    Mrr, no worries loves, I'm still pleased with myself, was more frustrated at the time. Some e-mails were exchanged, I try to make a point of keeping my head and not degenerating into baseless name calling but man.. Sometimes I'd just like to hit people. With a stick or something. Or do terrible, terrible things to them with aforementioned stick. Terrible, terrible unlubricated things
Honey..you are one of a kind.. Lol... Hon I don't know the details of your exchange with the other person who thinks of you as a "slut"
but I can state from the posts and answers you have given that you are the furthest thing from a slut. To me you are quite a few things like.. an Angel, vixen, temptress, tease, sexpot.. the list goes on But never a slut.
But... on the other hand you sexy thing... if you liked "Dirty talk" during hot sex then and only then could you be called C--t, B---h, S--t, and so on.
Terry


mobile_nastyboy 49M
55 posts
9/14/2006 2:40 pm

The best part of your ramblings here is that you are 100% honest with yourself first and foremost. The quandry you face and have resolved within yourself now is as old as Chritianity. Nothing new there.
Just be thankful you have the resources and will to be honest with yourself first and foremost in this modern time. I commend you for that!!

You are an intelligent and sexy woman who is just beginning to bloom and we love you for it.

Don't shy away fropm what you have come to realise in yourself and never feel guilty for anything you do in that context and frame of reference.
Kisses to you!!!!


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