Decisions, decisions...  

rm_ByebyeLuv 40M
1 posts
7/29/2005 1:49 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Decisions, decisions...


My girlfriend is still outta town... What to do with all this pent-up sexual energy? Should I watch porn and masturbate? Should I fall asleep dreamin' of when my lover will come back? Should I look for others that have the same wants and needs? My mind races with the options, and I have had barely little sleep since she went outta town. She is coming back, hopefully. Will I be the same person that I was before, or should I change to fit my new lifestyle? After she comes home, should I set her free, so we would have no distractions in our lives, or should I tell her that I want an open relationship? Should I tell her anything at all, and just pretend that everything is fine, while my life remains unfulfilled? What shall I do?

somesweeter69 36M/36F

9/24/2005 11:30 am

You need to do what makes you happy. I know that its easier said than done, but if your girlfriend doesn't understand the way you feel, than something's wrong. You need to be with someone who loves you (all parts of you) and who you are, and not someone who wants you to change.

Just my thoughts.


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