to have or not?  

27 posts
7/19/2006 9:42 am

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9/28/2007 9:17 am

to have or not?

i have a bad habit need some help...why do i want to have sex with every man i go out with?its hard to turn down i start thinking about how they would feel or how they are built.any advice

biology 39M  
292 posts
7/19/2006 1:30 pm

ok, PLEASE go out with me once? hehe

but other than that, your profile says divorced....maybe thats the problem. you have been with one guy so long that you "need" to know the other guys??

worth a shot.

mailmantrouser2 55M
534 posts
7/19/2006 1:35 pm

In the first place, why would you want to stop having sex?
In the second place, if you're immediately thinking about sex with any man you go out with, you can save yourself a lot of time by inviting him right away. You may have some disappointments, but on the whole you should be getting a lot of good sex.
In the third place, well there is not third place, except you call me, you look very attractive and sexy to boot. Can't say that for everyone here. You have my email at AdultFriendFinder.

Cal me MAILMAN (I deliver, or pick up)

electriccompany 53M

7/19/2006 2:12 pm

Oh, I've got the cure for your "bad habit": Just have a look at my dong! You'll be thinking twice about anybody with that picture rattling around in your head!

Actually it got pretty damaged last night at Camp Aphrodisiac, Blogland's Summer camp for sex fiends. Check out what those mean chix in Cabin 8 SuperGlued to it here Camp Update

Welcome to Blogland! (From your picture, it looks like you have a good sense of balance.)

SuperSuperGal 39F
20 posts
7/19/2006 3:04 pm

So..what's the bad habit?

JustAGuyInTn 53M

7/19/2006 5:03 pm

This is just me talking.... but this is what I believe....

Some women have a difficult time separating the intense feelings associated with sex from love.

Some women are are pacifiers... they want to make sure that the person they are with will like them, so she gives them what she thinks he wants.

Some women are dominators, and they feel that if they are aggressive, that they control the situation.

Some women feel guilty if a man treats her to dinner and a movie, or pays attention to her, and feels the need to "repay" the favor.

Some women are curious and feel that maybe they'll be missing out on something if they pass on an opportunity.

I could go on, but I think you get the picture... there are as many reasons for women to have sex as there are women. Personally, I think that you have a choice, you are not obligated to provide any personal attention to anyone for any reason other than you wanting to, and if the guy you are with gets irritated, pissed off, or any other such thing, then the guy has issues, not you. I'd say if that was the case, that you're better off not having sex with him to begin with.

Or... if you truly want to have sex... then I'm not sure that you have a problem or need advise. Enjoy yourself... and the lucky guy you are going out with


7/21/2006 9:04 am

LOL, I agree with (SuperSuperGal)! You appear to be a very bright and lovely lady, who enjoys sex!!!Whats the problem, I am sure you don't just do anybody that comes along. You have standards and requirements. Just follow the feelings unless you are having major guilt after wards. Just keep yourself safe!! and have fun until you find the one you are looking for. Now done with the 2cent advise, when can I see you?

Play hard, play safe and play often!!!{=}

young_stud047 31M
6 posts
7/26/2006 11:23 am

if you happen to be looking for a physical relationship with a younger male, please let me know. you are what im looking for on here!

211 posts
7/29/2006 1:26 pm

You are asking OUR advice??? We are the WORST!

cobra70118 106M

7/31/2006 5:03 pm

great opening post busty! welcome to blogland. Where's your home in NO?

rm_comnya 49M
4 posts
9/3/2006 11:04 am

Keep yourself from wanting sex. Have it (What a year it's been.) Have a great day Baby

rm_blonderandy 60M
1 post
9/22/2006 8:49 am

Hell I want to have sex with every women i see but it don't happen .. too bad huh . But As a women you have full control of every situation in my opinion loking at your pictures your awesome so enjoy it and maybe share with me one day oh how do i get you a picture of me hmmm

rm_loveit8864 54M

9/25/2006 4:41 pm

I think we should discuss this in person.

6 posts
10/16/2006 7:29 pm

cobra home used to be in violet la.thanks for the nice words

6 posts
10/16/2006 7:32 pm

thanks mailman..but i didnt say i was going to give up sex only need to slow down

PavedSissyWells 46M
3 posts
10/22/2006 12:00 pm

Hi bustylady i know the feeling fellow violation here lived on farmsite rd.. As for as your sex topic only you know what's right for you so wish you the best with that situation. I'm sure you can have your pick of men your very attractive. If need someone to listen drop me a line.

DoctorBooty 37M  
6058 posts
11/3/2006 8:12 pm

my problem is that i let it happen too soon in a relationship, and it ends up ruining things

its not that I date women who i don't think of having sex with constantly, but i guess with whats happened to me over the years that i've figured out that the best relationships are the ones where you wait a while

rm_dellyboi98 32M
3 posts
11/7/2006 8:34 am


nice2tits 49F  
35 posts
2/27/2007 7:47 pm

So what is the problem? If he is good take it all and take it often!

mlyszizzy 48F

3/25/2007 1:55 pm

lady be careful loveit8864 is a fake trust me

DodgeWeftsLouis 44M
1 post
4/4/2007 2:26 pm

u only live once get all u can while u can

rm_badass3809 39M
3 posts
4/18/2007 8:25 am

If you dont use it you will lose it....Think about this, okay if you dont have sexy when you want to or with the guys you fall for and you get older.. Do you think you will regret not having sex? If not then stop, If so then don't stop...easy as 123..haha Meaning to all that is live your life to make yourself HAPPY. Do what ever whoever and whenever you feel like doing because you are the only one who has to live with that....See ya

Cyclist111 64M

6/21/2007 1:57 pm

usually when a woman talks like this, they are seeking men's email addy's just to spam them, is this what this thread is about, I'm thinkin so, lmao. Another jive post, lmao

cock_brush_no9 45M

7/28/2007 10:37 am

helloo BUSTY, from another katrin vicim here, good luck wiht your new life but ifd love to chat wiht you soon..

6 posts
8/25/2007 8:04 am

well i hope someone asks for your email addy ...i shure as hell dont want it...Mr cyclist with that negetive attitude you dont have many chatt friends DO YOU ?i never ask anyone for thier email assy and i dont give anyone mine

alexamericain 53M
284 posts
9/24/2007 4:03 am

Hi Busty-

This won't count as advice and yeah... I don't if I could pretend to want to help you with this. So I'm tagging you, and you never know - the list could help a little and it'll make for some... Busty reading, I'm thinking So the tagging rules as I understand them:

- Write ten facts about yourself
- Anything. Fantasy, problems, goals, confessions, funny, true, whatever.
- Tag ten other people

I know. Sorry. What can I do.


alwayshavinfun7 40M

1/22/2008 7:05 pm

Hey with a body like that why wouldn't you want it all the time, I sure just looking in the mirror makes you horny.

ChumsBlestTokes 49M

3/9/2008 12:38 pm

The thing is...BUSTY's pics are not really why sweat it.. She is here for cyberfantasy...One dumb ass left her a testimonial and called her Katrina not realizing that it was a reference to the largest natural and man made disaster in US history.

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