Our so-call-first date  

rm_Blinded1969 40M
534 posts
8/10/2006 3:53 am

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10/9/2006 7:37 am

Our so-call-first date

Lol... yeah, we went out yesterday. It felt funnie coz its like we are starting something all over again.. and so my national day was spent watching tast and furious tokyo drift. Dinner. And NO SEX! lol...because nobody initiated it. After sending her all the way to Bedok, i took a cab back home and she sms me saying "No sex? Y? are you disgusted by me?" and i swear im not disgusted by her at all. i simply told her "no one initiated it thats y i thought you dont want it" ........

Im wondering. Does every meeting between a couple must end with sex? i mean, i had fun yes but at that point of time i wasnt a lil horny at all. Is it just me? Or is it something abt this so-call-"New" relationship we are having?

Supposingly if you are feeling horny... just like GIrlazllies, hehe.. do you initiate the move or you wait?

And if you are really horny, but you dont want to do it with yr partner (if you have a partner), would you go abt finding someone else or you just ram him/her and get it over and done with?

Surprise me people...


poison_syrup 44F
8533 posts
8/10/2006 5:08 am

Its not essential to end every meeting with sex. It will become monotonous as time goes by... If I am in a committed relation, of course I will do it with my partner only unless we have other agreement beforehand - like still okay to sleep with others just for the pleasure...


Angel Of Sins


angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
8/10/2006 5:35 am

I guess she just expected you to at least try or something. I don't think every date should end with sex....especially the first ones!


goodtry 56M
918 posts
8/10/2006 7:25 pm

Haha, I guess she knew you very well, that's why she ask that question. Anyway no big deal, not necessary you need to end up SEX on every outing right, further more you need new excitement as well.

Well maybe she can be a very good buddy of yours eventually, how it's going to continue from there only time can tell.


GirlzAllies 40G
618 posts
8/11/2006 12:20 am

Should have ask the taxi driver to turn back.. lol

If it's me, I would feel a little dissappointed as well. Both of you had known each other well enough. You could have at least try to steal a kiss. Test the water. See her reaction. If she kissed back, it's a clear sign that she wanted to spend a little more time with you.

For making the first move, women still prefers men to initiate. Did she tried wrapping her arms around you or brushing her hands `accidently' down your butt or keep touching you thigh when you were having a conversation? If she did, that are sign that she wants you. Just that she didn't want to be called cheap for making that first move.

Girlz..... just wanna have fun....


rm_Blinded1969 40M
916 posts
8/11/2006 3:23 am

Poison..... even if you dont feel like having him for supper, you'll bonk him anyways?

Angel.... hmmmmmm, maybe i didnt want the night to end in sex.. thats y i didnt try anything.. lol

Goodtry... (my shrink) ...i do agree, new excitement in a so-call-new relationhip is a good beginning huh?

Girlzallies...Turn back? nah no way....LOL ... i did kiss her goodnight tho' and yes her hands was on my thigh when we were talking and stuff. Sign? gosh we men dont know those sign i supposed? LOL.... women still prefer men making the move huh? hmmmmmm, i did before on Cara and look at where i ended up? LOL.. a total e-mail nightmare.. LOL... perhaps i might make a move on you huh? LOL....


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