The War in the Mirror  

rm_BigDnLady 44M/42F
1214 posts
3/24/2006 2:43 pm

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3/25/2006 10:15 am

The War in the Mirror

I love you.

I hate you.

You are sexy.

You are so attractive.

I love you.

I hate you.

You are so fat.

You have no ass.

I love you.

I hate you.

Your eyes are so beautiful.

Your lips are sexy.

I love you.

I hate you.

Your teeth are crooked.

Your ears are too big.

I love you.

I hate you.

When I stare into the mirror.......

I wrote this awhile ago, when I was unaccepting of myself. It made me cry to see, how I had cheated myself for that period of my life. I hope that someone will read this and know that we all have battles with ourselves at one point or another; but we need to remember, we are all special and unique. Love yourself first....let others love you for you...accept what we see in the mirror, but never let that define who you are as a human being.


meerkittykat 43F

3/24/2006 3:48 pm

That's cool...any woman who denies ever feeling like this at one time or another is fooling herself.


Jeepidiot 44M

3/24/2006 4:38 pm

Wow that's exactly what goes through my head. Well it would be if you removed all the I love you and compliments.

ShayeDK--I completely agree with you but lets not pretend it's only men doing this and that women are always interested in just personality and sense of humor. I can't count how many profiles I've seen on here with the woman saying "I'm HOT and I only want HOT men". Add in the profiles where they're only looking for men with grossly enlarged apendages and now it's us men that feel inadequate.

OMG I'm a blog hijacker. I'm sorry. I bring you HUGZ!!


3/24/2006 4:46 pm

I feel you, finally I feel good in my skin too! Great post!

just a squirrel trying to get a nut

MissKittyNip26 107F

3/25/2006 8:57 am

Damn.. readin' that made me think of myself in the mirror for sure! I thought I was the only strange one that thought of myself in 2 different extremes.. either VERY negative or VERY positive. Normally, I'm quite arrogant and conceited and basically think I'm the shit..LOL.. but about 20% of the time, I get really depressed lookin' at myself and think I just look a damn mess (due to my weight). SIGH.. It is definitely a war in the mirror.. great post!

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