rm_Bct2Esi 52M/51F
998 posts
1/28/2006 3:33 am

I was going to go *stomping* through my blog, since I am up and pissy...grrrrr (its 3:30 a.m MST)

I have had a few sips of coffee, a cigarette and wondering....WTF am I doing up this freaking early? When the dog won't leave you alone, Sprky won't get up and deal with her, and wham my mind is awake. Well, no use in sleeping....... grrrrrr

Now I have Sprky wondering, "holy shit, she is up, this isn't good" he keeps looking over his shoulder at me with that "holy shit" look on his face. As much as I wanna laugh at him, I am keeping this "I'm gonna rip your head off look instead" yep I can be a little evil when I want to be...hehehehehehe evil grin

Now for my question…………..

The other day I took a day off from these walls. Took a drive, to see a friend about a hug and other things....evil grin yes sprky new

While we were talking, we got on the subject of Men and Woman and the "why is it's"

I was asked to put this in my blog, since my friend is to *chicken* to do this. did I just say that out loud? *giggle*

Here it goes......why is it when a man wants a blowjob us woman want them to cum and get it over it with? They are not allowed to feel the pleasure and enjoy the warmth of our lovely mouths giving them pleasure. All they hear is ....."come on my jaw hurts", "can we get this over with" eyes rolling in our heads, strokes getting faster in the hopes that you guys will just cum already....sheeeeesh

yep sprky is still looking over his shoulder at me and just spun around in his chair grabbed his boys and just said to me, "he wants me to take pictures of his dick piercing and I was just told to get over this look, if he only knew what I was sitting here doing. Staring at him and typing this in here. *giggle*, Nope not giving in, not gonna smile...evil grin

Back to my question, but when us woman want some warm, caressing, licks and pleasure *down south* as my friend put it. We want the guys to pack a lunch, bring a sleeping bag, and spend the weekend. Do we care that their tongues are getting tired, do we care that their jaws might be getting tired? Hell NOOO we want them to keep on going and going and going. They have to be the energizer tongue bunny.

My friend looked at me with all sincerity, and I had no answer, but could only think of what [ blog travelingintexas] wrote about in his Sigh I Am Not Funny.

So woman why is that? Why do we want them to pack a lunch, bring a sleeping bag and spend the night or the weekend when we want tongue action. When it's their turn, we want this over with in minutes?

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the picture is mine and coyrighted 2006

rm_Bct2Esi 52M/51F
1375 posts
2/1/2006 10:21 am

roflao.......ruh-roh, sounds like hours of fun for us I almost spit my pepsi on the monitor when I read this

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TTigerAtty 63M

1/31/2006 11:03 pm

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rm_Bct2Esi 52M/51F
1375 posts
1/30/2006 2:47 pm

{{{{{{Jojo}}}}}} I think that there has only been one time I have had to stop, add use my hand like you said, to finish what I started. T.M.J. is a biotch, can get in the way of my fun;(

I have a great husband who is allowing me to find ways to work through the pain *evil grin*

thank you, I see that you agree with my sprky? LOL hehehehe

NO I havne't read that yet, OK, OK, Ok, already I will go to the library tomorrow and see if we have a copy of it and if not get it ordered roflao

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rm_Bct2Esi 52M/51F
1375 posts
1/30/2006 2:42 pm

{{{{{{{{{{ Trav}}}}}}}}}} thankfully, I did have and used protection roflao

*sticking tongue out at you*

OH my heaven this still makes me bust up laughing

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rm_Bct2Esi 52M/51F
1375 posts
1/30/2006 2:41 pm

{{{{Space}}}} I have to agree with you on sensuallykatey's writing of it. Holy cow, I was wishing I was a guy just to experience that

*shaking head* that is soooo terribly sad only one? I can round up some of us girls and we can have a blowjob party for you? *evil grin*

Camping can be fun, tiring as well *evil grin*

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rm_jojoyoyojojo 57M
73 posts
1/30/2006 10:02 am

I understand the TMJ stuff from my partners complaints. The way around that is just stay down there and keep using your mouth with your hand. Use more hand and occassional kissess or licks or sucks. The worst thing (speaking from painful experience lol) is when she just up and says "I can't do anymore" Come ooooooonnnnnnnnnn. Quit trying so hard well before it is painful and then you can keep kissing and licking and using your hands because we want the big 'happy ending'. For a lot of us, there is nothing better than a good BJ with a nice wet finish but nothing worse than having it cut short for any reason.
This is probably the most important post ever in the history of mankind, thanks for posting!
Along these lines, have you read the Sweet Potato Queen's Book of Love?

SpaceRangerNJ 56M
4687 posts
1/28/2006 6:04 pm

Well, I've mentioned it before, and I guess I'll mention it again here. I've only been on the receiving end of 1 (one) successful blow job. And at least she did "make all gone". I would love one as described by SensuallyKatey in her blog. ahhhhhhh!
I don't mind camping out (likes the outdoors, see profile lol).
I don''t know, I just like it there.

rm_Bct2Esi 52M/51F
1375 posts
1/28/2006 5:39 pm

whacks Trav

oh yeah well go see what he said about you and me in Dammit Trav then we'll see whose laughing roflao

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rm_Bct2Esi 52M/51F
1375 posts
1/28/2006 10:48 am

Hands [ blog rideandfun1000] a snorkel hehehehehe

evil grin

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ummmmm i like to swallow

rm_Bct2Esi 52M/51F
1375 posts
1/28/2006 10:46 am

{{{pleasure}}} well yeah your handle does say it all, so its unmerciful orgasims *wink*

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rm_Bct2Esi 52M/51F
1375 posts
1/28/2006 10:43 am

{{{{Mr. C}}}} thank you

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rm_Bct2Esi 52M/51F
1375 posts
1/28/2006 10:41 am

{{{katey}}} Yep I know you enjoy this *giggle*

Sprky knows how much I enjoy giving him pleasure and he lets me do it as long as I want or until my jaw starts hurting Thank gawd he understands, I am working through that *evil grin* he lets me excercise my jaw when ever I want which has been quiet frequently here lately

My dear friend, I am keeping my fingers crossed. Hoping that, you shall find that one special man that can pack a lunch and bring you to unmerciful orgasims again *wink*

Have a great weekend as well

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the posts weren't taking at 3:30 this morning either

rm_Bct2Esi 52M/51F
1375 posts
1/28/2006 10:33 am

Caress, wow I am honored that you stopped by my blog Thank you

I know it doesn't feel like I do, but I do. I am learning to work through the locking of my jaw and the pain that it causes.

Nothing makes me more happy than to pleasure Sprky, and like you its very intimate and turn on for me

Thank you so much for stopping by,

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rm_Bct2Esi 52M/51F
1375 posts
1/28/2006 10:28 am

Deep you know that is true, when used as a form of control that is just messed up in my book.

Glad to read that you two are working through it

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rm_Bct2Esi 52M/51F
1375 posts
1/28/2006 10:10 am

whacks sprky

Rideandfun1000 61M

1/28/2006 9:31 am

Maybe I just pick the right women - tell me they love giving me a blowjob. Within those that do, very few don't swallow - and about as many as those that don't swallow made no comment, so I assume they would just rather not do it.

Oh shit - that sounds like I've had... ummmmmmm... more than one lover...

Yeah that's what I mean...

And when I go down on a woman, I pack a loooooooong lunch, bring a sleeping bag, and a snorkel too - it takes practice to be able to breathe through one's ears... my goodness I get so much pleasure myself from that...

Ummmmm... well... ok ok - I've had more than two lovers, ok???

Satisfied now? Well, if not, then just hand me the snorkel... I'll be here a while...

pleasureyourclit 67M
836 posts
1/28/2006 7:58 am

MMM well mmm well mmm I think you have two ways to look at this one, some enjoy receiving more that giving while others enjoy the giving but don't need to receive oral pleasures.

Orally pleasing a woman is a big turn up and I guest i love the taste as well maybe that why i enjoying spending time between a ladies thighs with my head ..more than just few licks here

handle says it all hehe

oldman1776 79M
3164 posts
1/28/2006 7:38 am

LMAO Wish I had an answer for you but being a man I don't.

But I always bring a lunch and sleeping bag when I go down on a woman.

caressmewell 54F

1/28/2006 7:01 am

I enjoy giving a I don't feel as you do. I find it very intimate and I get turned on giving one.

Deepthroat215 53M
328 posts
1/28/2006 6:59 am

ok, for starters this is the truth and I'm not just trying to pull the same old line, BUT I could pack a lunch, bring a sleeping bag and stay down on a woman all lie. I love a well groomed, well kept woman and will do anything with my tongue, lips and fingers to caress, lick and poke until she cums as many times as possible.

The whole blowjob thing, don't get me wrong I love them, has to be just messed up for you women.

My wife gave me one on our second date, but later admitted she had a previous boyfriend who used it as a form of dominance, commanding her to it and for long periods of time.

She also was fairly inexperienced and although she allowed me to go down on her while we were dating, she admitted it didn't do much for her.

10 years later we've re-visited our oral relationship and she now really enjoys my down on her, and tells me she gets wet during the day thinking about it. We 69 mainly when she's orally pleasuring me.

Now we each have developed and evolved our own preferences and are used to each other's.

That's just some ramblings, certainly no answer.

I hope you and sparky got busy after this post!

rm_SprkyCplLv69 58M/51F
32 posts
1/28/2006 5:40 am

thats the 1st honest ? you have asked

rm_Bct2Esi 52M/51F
1375 posts
1/28/2006 4:14 am

I enjoy giving blowjobs, but after 15 minuets, my jaw does get to hurting, I have TMJ and it does get in the way of my fun *sigh and whimper*

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