Is it asking too much?  

rm_Azryela 40F
59 posts
5/21/2006 1:29 am

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5/21/2006 10:58 pm

Is it asking too much?

Is it too much to want a guy to be somewhat aggressive in bed? I've been with several guys over the last couple months and they have all been very sweet. And that's not a bad thing. But sometimes I would like them to be a little rough. Sometimes I really do want them to "fuck my brains out". But I'm not every good at getting that across. I'm terribly shy when it comes to making the first move or any of that. I'm easily embarassed and I giggle a lot. It's so unlike me in every other aspect of my life.

So guys, enough of the sweetness. I want someone to make me lose control.

8337 posts
5/21/2006 2:10 am

You are clearly with the wrong guys.

It's in a man's nature to understand the nuances of sex, being that there are different styles suited to different moods.

Some sensual, some raw and many shades of gray in between.

Simply put, it's not something you should have to hint at with a man.

If he doesn't have it in him to "fuck you like an animal" the way you want, to ravage you... then he isn't right for you.

I think many women like the personality of a "sweet guy" but rarely does it ever translate over to sex...


"My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur

rm_KirkVW44m 56M
688 posts
5/21/2006 4:23 am

I agree with Division77. Your haven't been fucked by the right man yet .. There is a time for gentle slow love making then there is a time to drive you out of your mind. I dont think i've done a good job unless the bed springs were nearly broken and the woman saying her pussy was sore when it was all said and done. But if we were making love and you told me to fuck you harder well that would kinda drive me wild and i would have to give you what you desired.. Truth be told i want a woman to tell me how to fuck her just right... All women are not the same.

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