Double standard  

rm_All4Fun16833 48M
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4/8/2006 5:15 pm

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4/29/2006 4:05 pm

Double standard

MZhorny answered one of my blogs and when I read one of hers it gave me one hell of an idea. Why is it that a woman can wirte anything down about wanting to have sex or how horny she is and a guy gets hot but if a guy does the same thing the women consider him a pervert or just plain sex crazed. What do you think of some of these double standards?

I have another one that gets to me. My wife and I have this argument all the time. I will go out and will flirt with other women. I will then leave after things get a little hot. I am a tease but I feel I am getting back at the women that did it to me when I was younger. My wife says why can't she do the same. My response is that no matter how drunk the woman is that I am flirting with will never come after me to me or beat me up like a man will do to a woman if he feels wronged or that she owes him. No woman owes a man anything no matter what was said or agreed to before hand. The same goes for the guy. No matter how much flirting goes on both men and women like feeling sexy and sometimes it takes a little flirting to feel that way then so be it. But by no means does this mean that anyone owes the other anything.

douxetlent 66M

4/8/2006 7:41 pm

I'm writing a novel on double standards. God knows there's enough material out there

Now, about your difference of opinion with your wife. I agree with your thinking 100%. However, please take some advice from this experienced old fart: It doesn't matter how right you are, if you make her feel like she's not getting a fair shake, she'll be out the door on you. Maybe not the front door, but you'll be sleeping in Iceland. Guaranteed. "Feel" is the key word here. There is no logic in the world that will supercede how a woman feels.

I'd say that if you absolutely need to flirt, give her her freedon and go flirt. If you don't want to cut her loose, study hard and figure out what you're missing that you are replacing with flirting.

I have been in your shoes, brother. Sometimes it just don't pay to win.

spunkyangel44 53F

4/23/2006 3:30 pm

same as the old double standard," a woman who goes out to get laid is a, WHORE, but a man is a STUD, go figure.

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