Day one...hurry up and wait  

rm_66divloco 52M
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8/21/2006 3:24 pm
Day one...hurry up and wait

Today my divorce was finalized. It started fair enough...I picked up my (ex)wife and we went down to the courthouse. 30 minutes later we were done.
She then went to have her name changed back to her maiden. I guess I am ok with that. It seems now days women want to keep their maiden names. I do feel sorry for her because of the things she will have to go through to get such done, however. I spent most of the day with her, and that time was spent at the social security office and DMV. 5 1/2 hours of waiting to do a 15 minute job...For her sake I hope changing things like bank accounts and such will be easier.
Now it is evening, and I sit here alone. Although we have been separated over a year, I guess that I hope some miracle would happen, and it would not have come to this. Please understand, I have been married over 20 years to my high school sweetheart. This is not the fairy tail ending I was expecting. However, that is not to be, so I must move forward. Therefore, I would like to ask about peoples experiences with such. I am not looking for some late night erotic reading, but honest, practical advice, comments, and encourgement. You see, I am an accountant, and in my world 1 + 1 = 2, yet with emotions that is not always the case.

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