A question I need answering.  

rm_4it921 62M
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8/3/2006 3:02 am

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8/3/2006 5:24 am

A question I need answering.

So heres the rub.
I consider myself a good guy in general but like everyone I have my faults. Some would think their good points others bad.
1. I am very laid back in my private life. At work I am Dynamic (I have to be) but when I come home I just want to relax chill out etc. This can take the form of a nice meal and bottle of wine (out or in) or slobbing in front of the telly.
2. I cant get over a very bad slight or argument in 2 mins. I cant go from Ghenghis Khan to Saint someone or other in two ticks. I need several degrees of calming down before I get back to lovey dovey again. No of steps depending on severity of slight etc.
However once im back to norm everything is forgotten and is never raised again in anger.

Heres the point (eventually I hear you say)

My last relationship broke up over precisely these two points so she says. I however was like that when we met, I was like that when we started going out, when we started living together and when we got married.

I didnt get worse or better I just stayed me. The way I am and the way I will always be.
She was able to fight Mike tyson at 3.00 and be the Virgin Mary at 3.01. I accepted this as part of the deal.

Do you know Im getting fed up of this post myself so you must be in agony if your still with me.Basically why do people accept other peoples quirks and then suddenly start world war 3 over them.
Wish someone could tell me!!

Sorry to bore the arse off you I sort of lost the plot there.

Take care xxx

rm_bigmamma61 56F

8/3/2006 4:53 am

Hi, I know that in my case it is called quick temper and acting before reflecting, or as some people would say my mouth isnt connected to my brain when i am talking, i think it's all of those and more. Sometimes we just get fed up with how people are coz we want to change tham and we cant, so we decide that they have changed and use that as an excuse to escape.
Laura xxx

rm_4it921 replies on 8/3/2006 5:12 am:
I know what you mean. But why do people want to change the very thing they obviously fell in love with? Thats the bit I just dont get. If you dont like laid back temporalilly sulky people dont marry them I would have thought.
Ah well hope your fine xx

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