ok, so what now?  

rm_2toflirtwith 53M/43F
10 posts
6/6/2006 9:00 am

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6/9/2006 8:06 pm

ok, so what now?

we took the picture, he he, we've answered the million questions in the different profile questionares...so now what? How do we meet someone to get to know? Help help, do we go to the chat rooms now? Confused we are, but excited to get down with the right person

rm_PeanutJackie 37F
1286 posts
6/6/2006 10:15 am

First off, I highly suggest you read this post in my blog New to the site Read this

Get involved in an Interest Group in your area, or in the magazine. Hit up the chatrooms, but don't expect to have women flocking to meet you. Your best bet is to NOT advertise in the chatroom that you are looking for a woman. I would first, pick a font color (under Chat Options), and set the Refresh Rate (also under Chat Options). You will want to make sure you enter into HTML chat, as Flash Chat can be a bit overwhelming for newbies. Not to mention it doesn't always work very well. Next, just sit back and watch the conversations and try to chip in a little. Your best bet is to try and be a "welcome addition" to the chatroom before trying to find someone to meet with. Chatrooms often have Meet & Greet parties where you can get together in a bar and have a good time talking and getting to know other people from the site. Without the pressure of having sex. They can be lots and lots of fun. Just keep in mind, EVERYONE (or almost everyone) is in search of a woman, so don't get discouraged if you don't find that "one" right away. You'll get out of this site what you put into it, and i'm not just talking money to view profiles and email people.

Again, please read my blog post New to the site Read this for some very good information for newbies.

Welcome to the site and please feel free to contact me if you have any questions. I'm happy to help

"I am beautiful no matter what you say, words can't bring me down. So don't you bring me down today."

woofff 42F

6/6/2006 1:41 pm


Are new here? Am about a year's vintage, I love it so far... I'de say play around with the maximum options your memberships allows you for contact between people yeah? For ex am a standard member and that excludes me from access thats provided to paid members...

You have the rating pages...have never explored it myself but some folks are into who winked at them or who invites them to their networks.

Are right on about having to speak up about your feelings. You'l be fine
am sure.

Keep an eye out,like Mum said.This is the the new real world.


SirMounts 103M

6/23/2006 2:43 pm

Well, if you haven't already, check out evey avenue on this site, and everyone of interest.
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