Go forth and be more fucking creative!!!  

revelinthedance 36M
44 posts
2/9/2006 11:21 am

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3/29/2006 12:27 pm

Go forth and be more fucking creative!!!


I browse through profiles in both my goal-oriented activities and my leisure when I feel like being a little lazy, and I can't help but feeling as though all of the creative minds have fled. People hav cooped themselves up in rooms with computers for too long and they don't know how to interact with people. Unlike my previous post, this isn't about the nature of fantasy, but about the ability of people to communicate.

I suppose that it makes the people who can actually give at least moderately intelligent commentary about themselves all that much more special, but the other 85% of the profiles are simply mind numbing. Wouldn't it be nice if people actually rose above their peers to be considered intelligent, rather than having the general population get just that much dumber and beginning to consider those who've managed to remain what was previously average to be intelligent? Instead, through interaction with only machines, people seem to have adopted "moron" as their first language.

I want to read about an actual person with potential as I browse the profiles, but instead I find a plethora of people who could do nothing better to describe themselves than copy the AdultFriendFinder suggestions for describing themselves on their profiles verbatum. Apparently almost everyone on this site is "your typical down to earth (girl/man), always treating with respect..." and none of them are looking to change their lives, but are rather looking to add some more spice to it. And to all of you who use chatroom speak (ie lol, lmao, xoxo, etc.) in your messages and profiles; if you're not bots, you're idiots! How can anyone who reads those profiles or messages be the least bit intrigued? If you can't be creative and introspective enough to pry some in the least bit stimulating words out of your mind, how in the hell are you going to be the least bit entertaining in bed! I'm not necessarily equating eloquence to sex, but creativity and thinking outside the box definitely registers in both simultaneously. If your add reads like an add for a "for sale by owner" car in the paper, then your sex has got to be like trying to fix that same car: Mechanical, prescribed, boring, and the car just lays there and contributes nothing. I don't see how any of the people whose adds read in those wonderfully prescriptive fashions can possibly bring anything more to a sexual experience than one could get out of masturbation.

SHOW PEOPLE THAT YOU HAVE A BRAIN AND A PERSONALITY TO GO WITH IT, AND I'LL BET THINGS WILL GO BETTER FOR YOU IN ALL AREAS, NOT ONLY ON THIS SITE. Otherwise, stop putting everyone into an intillectual coma and be kind enough to remove the profile. Making others go brain dead isn't going to get you laid either. Nobody wants to go through the trouble of acting like you have a personality to get laid, when they could get something just as stimulating as I'm sure you are out of a plastic doll that they can keep at their beckon call all of the time.

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!

sassybelle21 34F  
13313 posts
2/9/2006 1:11 pm

I wonder if you'd consider my profile intelligent and appreciate it Check out my sassybelle21 profile if you have some spare minutes. A warning though - I might blow your male ego away


revelinthedance 36M

2/9/2006 1:35 pm

Your profile gets points for communicating your personality effectively, as long as I assume that it is truthful. I really do think that you spend far too much time trying to assert how different you are from what you seem to think is the stereotypical "passive" female. You also make too many assumptions about the basic nature of men, both in your profile and your post on my blot. Assuming that I have a "male" ego that you can blow away is rather ignorant. First, you have to qualify your assumption of the male ego and second, you must understnad that, whether or not I have an ego, it has nothing to do with my gender. Other than that, yes, I liked your profile. I like strong-willed people. If I can't have a good argument with them, I generally don't consider them worth my time. This, of course, means that I really love people who will bite back when I start debates, which I am prone to do just because I feel like it. If someone can't argue with me, then I certainly don't think they'd be any fun to hang out or have sex with. On that level, you are intriguing. In short; your profile is interesting and I like what it says about your larger personality traits, but I think it banks far too much on some ill-conceived assumptions.


RedheadedMedStd 35F

3/28/2006 9:20 pm

I feel you are holding back...


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