rescue_me_2005 62M
20 posts
3/9/2006 10:38 pm

Last Read:
7/5/2006 4:46 pm


signed on today and found the following:

0 new messages
0 new winks
0 new network invitations
0 new viewers to my profile

10 women were either dropped by the site or blocked me in response to my winks. i culled my hot list for those who have not been on here for over 2 weks. hot list now sits at 68. over the last week not one new person viewed my profile. i have been active in the magazine and commenting. my questions in the advice column have draw a lot of interest...both negative and positive...mostly positive.

this blog continues to have an increase in visits with almost 550 views. i viewed the list and discovered that the majority of visitors are men. the age of all visitors is in the 45-50 yrs. old range. very few young ladies have stopped by...possibly too busy not answering their e-mails and winks...i know...snarky...forgive the self indulgence...vent??

my score???continues to go up and down in proportion to the number of visits i make here and my activity in the day i will have to find out about this scoring thing.

see you again soon...will be out of town visiting calgary next week.

Shelly_Marie 45F

3/9/2006 11:10 pm

I know, I dont understand why more women dont view profiles...i do usually. Especially if I like his pic.

senory55 45M

3/9/2006 11:42 pm

Keep it up... it will take some time... good luck

Shelly_Marie 45F

3/9/2006 11:44 pm

you know, i wonder if it is because they may not be able to reply. I mean alot of times I can not email someone on here unless alot of people have viewed my profile, and most of the guys who would have viewed my profile already have at some point and they dont go back to it again, and believe it or not...I only received 1 email today, and 1 other one at about 3:31 in the morning, and its been that way for a while now. So who knows, they may not get viewed enough to be able to reply or email you back....even if they wanted to. you might want to tell them if they want to chat with you then they can meet you in a certain chat room so that you can talk and all, if they cant reply..I mean offer that as an option...

rescue_me_2005 62M
6 posts
3/10/2006 9:07 am

as standard members we are limited. we have to pay in order to be able to interact with members to the fullest. that is the reason for this blog. when i have experienced enough time as a standard, active member to guage what a standard member can expect i will upgrade to see if things get better. i will continue to report my success/or lack thereof after i upgrade. i must admit though it sucks to be a standard, male member on here.

Sheely Marie please do not take this the wrong way, and i believe your 1 e-mail day is just an short term situation, but i enjoyed reading about the fact that you too are having bad days. thanks for the all of you...keep coming back...the experiment continues.

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