smoking and overeating worse than extramarital affairs  

redmustang91 58M  
8986 posts
3/7/2006 9:09 am

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3/7/2006 12:51 pm

smoking and overeating worse than extramarital affairs

Many single people condemn the married but looking guys on AdultFriendFinder. Fine, but prejudiced viewpoint. If a woman is trying to get married or looking for a roommate she should avoid married guys. If she is looking for a lover, or friend for sex, maybe not.

From a health standpoint, smoking or overeating and not exercising is much worse than affairs for your health. Smoking's effect on cancer rates, heart disease and stroke, and as gum disease and teeth loss are well known. Over eating and lack of exercise is leading to similar high rates of diabetes, heart disease and strokes. And unattractive bods.

Infidelity is so common as to be the norm according to the surveys. 80% of men and 60% of women admit to affairs. Extra sex is good for you. People try to get in better shape, exercise more, and sex is great to lift your mood and elevate your sense of self worth. With a little planning one can usually avoid most STD's and unwanted pregnancy.

So condemn smokers and overeaters more than extramarital sex enthusiasts!

MissAnnThrope 57F
11488 posts
3/7/2006 12:07 pm

No, because when a woman is looking for a lover, she's not looking for out of the way trysts, or a guy who has to answer his cell phone in the middle of sex. Nor is she thrilled about meeting at motels or hotels, him having to hurry up and get out after he's done fucking her, not getting even a phone call on holidays, etc. A woman who wants a lover is looking for a lover. Not someone who is available only when he can get away from the wife. We want men we can call at home and who can spend the night. Not men who as soon as they're done jump out of bed and hit the shower, so their wives won't smell another woman on them.

redmustang91 58M  
8935 posts
3/7/2006 12:49 pm

The women I have had extramarital sex with generally have husbands, and they take a shower too. I don't carry my cell phone generally and almost never have it on. Not all women want to spend the night. Recall the funny bit by janine Garafalo. Hotels are a sexy place to have sex...
I don't believe is hurrying through sex. After four or five hours my lover is usually ready to leave and take a break! I have stayed overnight a few times on business trips and that is fun too!

I still say smoking and being overweight is worse for your health than affairs...

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