Why women take so much work to have sex?  

redmustang91 58M  
8979 posts
2/3/2006 5:00 pm

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Why women take so much work to have sex?

I always find it strange that there is so much coaxing and convincing required to get most women to have sex. My theory is they like to play hard to get, or suffer amnesia. Like they forget the pain of childbirth, they forget that they really like sex and orgasms.

Or maybe it is due to the disappointing sex they often experience so not in a rush to repeat the bad experience?

Billy Crystal said: Women need a reason to have sex, men need a place!

True enough in my experience. Women generally put men down for being eager to consummate the friendship. And men are puzzled why women don't want to do it as easily...

Perhaps women are concerned about pregnancy [there is pretty reliable birth control now]?

Perhaps women are concerned about STD's [there are precautions, and life has risks...] ?

Perhaps this is just one of the mysteries of life?

MissAnnThrope 57F
11488 posts
2/4/2006 6:40 am

Maybe we're all sick of hearing someone say they'll call us after we go to bed with them and then never hear from them again. Or, perhaps we're sick of men who have sex with us saying it was a hideous mistake and how guilty they now feel. Maybe we want to make sure someone wants us for us, not for our collection of holes, as we tend to be viewed as any port in a storm in many cases. Maybe it's the way men treat us if we just fall into bed with them. "Oh, you slept with me on the first date, who else are you fucking?" The list goes on.

redmustang91 58M  
8924 posts
2/4/2006 11:14 am

What difference do dumb things said by dumb guys make to enjoying good sex with guys you like?

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