Sexual variety  

redmustang91 58M  
8976 posts
3/14/2006 9:37 am

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3/15/2006 10:38 am

Sexual variety


In my view more unneeded drama and heartache is caused by the refusal of people to accept basic facts about human's biological nature. People confuse morality with biology. Humans crave sexual variety. In the past men were allowed to satisfy this craving with prostitutes, while women were stoned for adultery. Unfair and stupid.

Swingers are criticized, but at least they try to deal with the duality of craving a relationship and also craving variety. Generally, people deal with the reality of their biological urges and religious training and morality by being hypocrites. Espousing one view publicly and having affairs secretly.

So I advocate Don't ask, Don't tell! Confession is bad for self respect and marriages. What you don't know will not hurt your mental image of the blessed union. Don't neglect your spouse, but still try to enjoy life. I don't deprive her of anything she wants, as often as she needs...

redmustang91 58M  
8917 posts
3/14/2006 4:34 pm

I don't intend to convince anyone of anything. I am stating my view point. As a lawyer I am a paid advocate. As a blogger I am just musing out loud.


libgemOH 57M/53F

3/14/2006 4:50 pm

I don't advocate don't ask, don't tell. Been there, done that, end of intimacy in a relationship.

I am in a somewhat open relationship in that we play together and also play apart, but with set ground rules between us. However, there are no secrets. We tell all. We have an intimacy and a trust with each other that surpasses anything I've ever had before.

Simply my opinion.....-B


redmustang91 58M  
8917 posts
3/15/2006 10:38 am

B I admire your openness. But some are not so uninhibited and realistic about sex...


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