Recreational Sex!  

redmustang91 58M  
8986 posts
9/12/2005 1:19 pm

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Recreational Sex!

Naming things correctly is actually somewhat important because it affects how you think about them.

So lets talk about what I am looking for and hope others are as well.

Not casual sex! I take sex very seriously as the source of great joy and sometimes heartbreak.

Not promiscuous sex! I have not had that many partners and in these days of AIDS and other STD's who wants hundreds of partners? Dumb fuckers.

Not NSA! There are always strings that tie us to each other, if we are thinking clearly.

Not hookups! We are not phone eletrical equipment.

Not a fuck buddy! A friendly person of course, but there should be more of a connection than just a buddy.

Not just friends with benefits! Friendly is good, and sex is good, but maybe we can be a little closer than this.

So lets be recreational lovers, not exclusive, and enjoy fab times including some awesome sex!

funwithyou602 57F

9/12/2005 5:30 pm

mmmmm, I say playmates. That is what I always say so does that fall under recreational lovers? Or is that to adolescent, maybe further regressive than adolescent but that is what I want. Carefree, let it go, let it all hang out, who gives a dam lovers. I'm ok your ok playmates. With lots of discretion, and mature enough to be themselves. I am also not looking for friends w/ benefits. I want a great friend who I see in the bedroom only. I have enough no sex friends. Time for some sex only friends. lol

wyvernrose 39F  
3964 posts
9/12/2005 7:46 pm

I agree I have playmates myself it sems to be a little hazy otherwise as to wether they fit the role playmates tends to work for me too


redmustang91 58M  
8935 posts
9/12/2005 11:40 pm

I like the term playmates, but for guys that evokes the term "players" which seems to create negative feelings in females. Also reminiscent of Playboy's monthly playmates, who are beautiful but more fantasy than reality for most men.

volcanoinu23 54M

9/13/2005 6:11 am

Sex is one of the least expensive, most enjoyable activities there are. I work in the recreational industry, but I think that I may have to reexamine my career goals!

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