redmustang91 58M  
8976 posts
4/21/2006 11:28 am

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4/26/2006 9:37 am


Just a stray thought about some of the comments I have read by various bloggers claiming they have not had sex in years. Perhaps they don't count masturbation as sex or they have forgotten they have hands to reach their sex organs?

You lose capacity if you don't use it. As in atrophy. Sexually use it or lose it. If you cannot be with the one you love, and you cannot find a friend to share sex with, love yourself, the one you are with always.

At least you know your own sweet self will never leave you, calling you bad names and acting mean.

Perhaps all that bad absinence sex education class training in schools has convinced people to stop enjoying masturbation? I hope not! Another good reason to question the info given one by the establishment...

rm_melisiousxo 50F
182 posts
4/21/2006 11:55 am

I was one of the unfortunates that had not had sex (with a person) in a long time prior to joining this site. And I couldn't disagree more. Yes technically speaking, masterbation is sex, and there are multitudes of sex toys that women can use to inhance or simulate sex with man. But honey, nothing replaces the feeling of hot breath on your pussy..or a huge warm cock filling you up..

And besides dosen't masterbation cause blindness??

VATraveler1948 69M

4/21/2006 11:58 am

I guess different people define sex in different terms. I don't think I would ever define masturbating as "having sex", granted, it's a technicality but I expect that most of the world would agree. Hell, even a former President of the United States had a very narrow definition of sex.. his didn't even include oral sex.

VATraveler1948 69M

4/21/2006 12:00 pm

Another stray thought... if I apply your definition of having sex... I lost my virginity at age 12.


4/21/2006 12:05 pm

I know myself very well POWER TO THE PEOPLE! lol

just a squirrel trying to get a nut

n0tatalker 40M

4/21/2006 12:24 pm

Yeah, but like anything you can over do it! Ummm, not me though! somebody else.... stup'd!!!

rm_lovelyLady 65F
434 posts
4/21/2006 1:12 pm

Stang; you are Soooo Right!
Gotta keep those muscles exercised..... as one smart lady said-
"an orgasm a day keeps the Dr away"
I follow her advice to the letter.......sometimes more...
xoxo LL

redmustang91 58M  
8917 posts
4/21/2006 5:06 pm

Interpersonal sex is great with the right person, but the build up and release from a self administered orgasm is sex and can be very good too! So don't be shy. If you cannot be with one you love then love yourself the one you are with!

redmustang91 58M  
8917 posts
4/26/2006 9:37 am

Besides if you get good at masturbation you can get good at having orgasms with another person. I like to think of masturbation as practice sessions like race car drivers do, before the big race, to tune up the performance...

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