Love Contract  

redmustang91 58M  
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6/30/2006 11:32 am

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Love Contract

Contracts are binding civil agreements between consenting adults. As lawyer I studied contract law in law school and have applied it in many years of practice. Some of these concepts apply to love.

For a contract to be binding generally it needs consideration. In the law that is a detriment to the one making the promise or an advantage to the one receiving the benefit. In love-making I prefer consideration in the lay sense of the word and think lovers should always be considerate!

Love Making contract:

1. All parties will be considerate of their partners feelings, body and property.

2. All parties will strive to arouse, seduce and satisfy the other party and themselves.

3. Generally the man will pay for all expenses due to the law of supply and demand and cultural stereotypes!

4. All love-making will be consensual and freely chosen by the parties. Any fantasy will be just a fantasy. No coercion, threats of violence or actual violence except consented to fantasy.

5. No failures of communication in arranging meetings or following through on activities.

6. Honesty and candor are expected and rewarded.

7. Clear feedback on what works and what does not!

8. Respect, humor and intelligence is appreciated.

9. Anything said with a loving attitude is fine.

10. Affection is always good!

11. Don't treat your partner as you would treat yourself, treat the other better, and as he or she prefers!

12. Everything is subject to negotiation and improvement.

13. No mystery disappearances.

14. Don't ask and don't tell what you don't want to know!

15. Don't make promises you cannot or will not keep! Say what you mean and mean what you say.

16. Acentuate the positive and eliminate the negative!

florallei 100F

6/30/2006 12:33 pm

Where do I sign?...may want to add...any intimate details must remain confidential even after dissolving the relationship.


redmustang91 58M  
8917 posts
6/30/2006 12:57 pm

Regarding confidentiality, some like to glory in the details in blogs on AdultFriendFinder as a form of advertising, I assume. I am discreet from habit, consideration and training as a lawyer given the attorney-client privilege.

As for signing florallei, as soon as we become lovers...

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